Beyond Borders Blog

The Scarf of Many Meanings

2009-10-26T21:18:00.000-07:00

At the end of November the BB Alumni are helping host a fundraising event for the current BB students which will hopefully include potential corporate sponsors. As part of the program, we will be auctioning off items that we brought back from our placements. Although my item is a modest, pashmina scarf, the story behind it is what truly matters the most to me. I hope that the person purchasing the scarf will be able to appreciate the memory and life-changing experience that the item represents. The following will be featured on the back of my favourite Sarajevo post card, and will hopefully be placed near the item during the auction:

The Scarf of Many Meanings

On my last day in Bosnia, I saw things in a whole new light. I had the opportunity to relive a day in Sarajevo- Bosnia Herzegovina’s capital city- and finally experience all the little things I missed the first time around. I.e., I started to notice the countless painted rose petals on the pavement honouring those killed during the war of the 90s, I got to visit the different religious buildings that represented hope for unity and acceptance among diverse ethnicities in Bosnia Herzegovina. Watching the elderly strategically make their move using chess pieces on a human-sized board while finally seeing inside the soul of someone I shared the majority of three months with but never really knowing as a person was remarkable. There in the heart of Sarajevo, while taking in its diverse food, culture, language and markets I was finally able to ‘just be’.

This scarf represents a moment in time. It represents my final day in a country that welcomed and accepted me. It represents a country that was torn apart and is still trying to recover. It represents hope. It represents an experience that truly changed me as a person, making me want a more fulfilled life where capitalistic greed is replaced by true happiness found through love, family cohesion, and continuously become a better and active global citizen through ongoing involvement in local and international organizations and research focused on issues such as poverty, peace and conflict, immigration, sustainable livelihoods, child labour, unjust imprisonment, and environmentally sound initiatives.

The End of One Chapter Means the Beginning of a New One

2009-10-18T22:28:00.001-07:00

As the stress of midterms and assignments starts to mount, I find myself reflecting on my experience in Bosnia. Looking at pictures of the summer and things that I have accumulated from my host family and reading my journal entries from my summer abroad makes me reflect and refocus on what's important.

One of the many things is to properly complete my experience. While talking to other BB students, I realise that I am not the only one who, through getting caught up in the hussle and bustle of live back in Canada, has not properly sat down, digest and reflect on the past year. Thus, this past week I have been trying to take time out every night to make sure that I am completing my experience. What does this all really mean?

I have finally had a chance to send out all of my thank you notes and postcards to those who have supported me and who have requested them. It feels really good. In general, I would like to take the time out to formally thank the following people and companies:

My friends and family who helped with fundraising, and supported me through thick and thin before, during and after my placement overseas

Everyone who helped me monetarily

St. Aloysius, Holy Cross HELPS & Knights of Columbas

All BB Students from 08-09, BB Alumni, & staff

Everyone from Intercordia including the Alumni, students from the 08-09 programs, especially those who spend the summer with me in BiH

Zio's Restuarant for letting me host my fundraiser there and all of my regular customers at the restaurant for supporting me

The Independent and Free Press for promoting my Event

The band (CopperField) who played at my Georgetown fundraiser

Everyone who came out/helped out at both the pancake and evenning events

AND the following companies/people who donated auction/door items:

Aiden Finucane/Pepsi

Benix & Co.

Best Western

CIBC

Curves

Glazed Expressions

Guardian (Pharmacy) on Main St. Georgetown

Jason Rowbottom

Metro (Grocery store)

North Star Dry Cleaners

Ruby from BB

Scotiabank

The Freckled LionThe Power ZoneThe Spa on Main

The Wood Heron Studio Gallery

Zio's

I also decided to allocated WEEKS of sleepless night on completing a meaningful report documenting my entire Beyond Border experience. I have decided to attach it to this blog. I am sorry in advance for the candid, and at times blunt, stories. I am sorry if I have affended anyone; it was not my intention. At the end of the day I respect everyone and I am grateful to everyone that has been appart of my BB experience.

I hope that I can continue striving for a more fulfilling life and that I can make my family proud.

~G.

Nagashir's First Words

2009-10-12T20:48:00.000-07:00

If you want to live, live with a smile,

Live with love, don't cry

Don't shed your tears.

There are storms, there are disasters;

In life there are ups and downs.

But don't shed your tears.

Smile- pain is part of life,

But finally you get joy.

If you want to live, live with new hopes,

Live with love.

Live with a smile.

- Nagashir (Me to We, p. 9) is a truely inspiring boy. After everything he's gone through, the years of child labour, THESE were his first words in years.

It made me reevaluate once again what is truely important. That having open dialect, reading and experiencing and LISTENING and then communicating people's life experiences are SO important. AND to LOVE life and live it to the fullest. Thank you Nagashir.

Traveler's Itch/Living in Warp Speed

2009-08-26T16:06:00.000-07:00

Since coming back to Canada I have been EXTREMELY busy!

I left for Canada with just over a day's notice, I started working for my uncles a day after arriving in Canada, I have found a house and a job (fingers crossed), and have gone to a concert and seen most of my friends. I am also going for surgery on my teeth and then having a job interview and moving days later. I am mentally exhausted!

With that said, I have the volunteering/teaching/going to a developing country ITCH! I feel like I want to do more for my local community. With my friends leaving to volunteer around the globe, and no prospective opportunities for me to go, as of yet, I am starting to get very itchy! lol There is so much that I want to do... if only there were more hours in the day.

It Feels Like it was All a Dream...

2009-07-30T14:41:00.002-07:00

I feel like I was Dorthy just dreaming about going to the Wizard of Oz because the past few days have just gone by SO fast!

This morning I woke up thinking, "I know I have to wake up for something but what?! I don't have programming at the Omladinski Centar anymore... wait I'm not in GVU anymore. What do I need to do?! OH YA, I have to start working at my uncles' camp today... in Canada!"

After prepping my L.A. and Math lessons, I went downstairs to copy my class list. A little boy was making a dog out of large Lego pieces. We started having a conversation about his Lego creature and I was helping him make ears and a nose. Then I thought, "Oh my, it is SO strange yet exciting; I can actually understand what he is saying and have a full on conversation!" It's funny how little things can affect you so much.

I also caught myself saying c(ch)eki and pazi NUMEROUS times today to the children. I'm suprised that they didn't look at me like I was crazy. lol When I got back to my baba and deda's house I said, "one minute I'm just getting my c(ch)erape" (sp?), AKA socks.

Typing, I keep forgetting that the y is not longer where the z is, I don't have to press Ctrl Alt V to make an @ sign, and I can actually type ' without a hassle/going into Word.

Moreover, whenever I hear a plane I smile to myself thinking, GVU is only a plane ride away, and that we are all looking at the same sky.

It's funny how I can get back into the swing of things, i.e. teaching at my old camp, but that I am still holding onto memories and habits from GVU.

It was also interesting that today felt so much shorter and teaching was so much easier, for the most part. (I guess it's because everything is so fast paced, which was definitely an adjustment for me at the airport yesterday.) It was nice to be able to teach the children English again, and I found that making lesson plans took a fraction of the time it took last year. I think a lot of it had to do with prepping in GVU, and learning from Bridge that sometimes it's just more efficient and easier to DO something/highlight key points rather than write out full blown lesson plan.

I miss all the GVU people but I am grateful to be able to spend two weeks with my grandparents, see old and new faces at the camp, be around like minded people, AKA aspiring teachers, and earn some much needed money.

~G.

My Blindfold is Off

2009-07-27T07:33:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: The following is merely my experience. I hope that it does not offend anyone. If it does I am truly sorry and it wasn't my intension.

Going into this placement I knew that there was a division between the ethnicities but I didn't realise the extent. Upon arriving, I could see the physical separation: the Muslims lived on one side of the front line and the Catholics lived on the other. However, after having the chance to converse with numerous people and families I started to realise just how real things were.

After work one day one of the children told me that a girl from the centre begged her friends not to leave because she was worried that more people from the other side would come. Around the same time I found out that some of the parents from one side were uneasy about letting their children go to swimming lessons because they would be taught by people from the other side. Others did not want to go to the Yoga classes offered at the centre because they thought the money was solely going towards the other side. (We forgot to include both the Bosnian and Croatian versions of some of the words on our promotional posters.) This was only the beginning signs that there was more to the town than physical separation. I was starting to realise that it was too soon for some people to forgive and forget what happened over ten years ago.

It was also shocking to hear that the school systems and government are doing so little to resolve things. There are still separate elementary schools, and there are separate entrances and floors for the Muslims and Catholics in the high school. A teacher was even suspended for refusing to go through her designated entrance. Moreover, some of the teachers are trying to convince their students to refrain from going to activities were the two religious groups interact. The government does not show much effort in trying and bring the sides together. The local government could not even hold their promise to clean up a park so that the children from both sides could safely interact with each other.

With that said, a book that I am reading, hearing stories and reflecting with the other ICVs has shone a new light on the issue. For instance, I am currently in the middle of a book called ´Empire Lite´ by Michael Ignatieff. It is the last book in the 4 part series about the Bosnian conflict, among other global conflicts. He brings up a good point: who are we to decide when it is good for people to heal, forgive and forget the past? We weren't there, and we never experienced the conflict. In a way everyone in Bosnia was affected. The government officials, teachers, and families most likely knew someone that was affected. Thus, although the optimistic me wishes everyone could live in peace and harmony, I have to realise that some things take time.

Moreover, I have to hope that while some organizations are pulling out their funds and resources, organizations such as Intercordia, Beyond Borders, the American group and the German organization will continue helping support the Omladinski Centar. I also hope that new organizations will be inspired by the OC and want to contribute to their amazing mission. I wish them future success and I hope to visit again soon.

Expect the Unexpected...

2009-07-27T02:03:00.001-07:00

So my plans for the end of the summer unfortunately keep changing and it is SUPER frustrating! Initially I was supposed to see my extended family in Croatia with my grandma. I was EXTREMELY excited. However, after a health issue at home it was decided that it would be best for her to stay in Canada. Then I was excited to spend time with my family here in GVU. But, after a lot of persuasion from my family in Canada I decided that I should go home earlier and take a job at the summer camp I have been working at for years. Then after finalizing a job, plans with friends and family, I have been told that there are no flight home. My only hope is to get on the same one as my IC friend, Bridge.

Expect the unexpected right?!

Saying My Good-byes

2009-07-20T10:19:00.000-07:00

My BiH Family

(Pepa, me, Erna, Franjo, Ivo, Tata i Mama)

(Us kids in the family room Pepa. Franjo, me, Erna i Ivo)

It’s funny, I’ve moved an average of once ever two years, not counting my university moves, and I am still not good at saying good-byes.

Although I am SO proud of my sister for being picked to go with some of her classmates to the coast for two weeks, I am very sad because it means that we will have to say our goodbyes a week earlier (she is leaving on Saturday morning and I am probably leaving the following weekend). Weeks ago I prepared a care package for her travels and for my family.

(Side Note: It is crazy that I am potentially leaving in less than two weeks. The time has just blown by! My brother and I were on the balcony today and he said something that both touched my heart and broke it at the same time. After hearing that my family would receive their goodbye package a week Thursday he said, ˝Sabrina, that is puno puno puno soon!˝ I heart them!)

I am also a HUGE fan of drawing out gift exchanges. At Christmas I usually only get one or two gifts for each of my immediate family members. I try to get something that I am pretty sure they will love. Since they only receiving one thing from me and I LOVE watching people open their gifts, I like to wrap the gifts an average of 10 times. I also put packing tape around a full layer or two of the wrapped gift. Moreover, I cut short pieces of tape to trick the people into thinking that they have found the end to the tape, thus a way to unravel the package.

Since I do not have enough supplies to do that here, I have decided to do a scavenger hunt for my family and Erna, like the one Kate did on the Valentines Day episode of Jon and Kate Plus 8. I have made up clues that I will put all around the house. For instance, one says, ˝This is where I did my window/comedy act˝. Each clue will lead to where the next clue is. In the end their gift and final letter will be waiting for them. The only problem I am having is putting into words how much this summer has meant for me and how grateful I am to each of them. As well, my family does not understand why I have to leave earlier than expected. (I have a job and family waiting for me in Canada.) Hopefully the words will come to me in the next few days.

Well, I just received words from Erna that my deda in Canada is calling me at 9pm so I must get some work done and head home; I am VERY excited to speak with him and my baba. :D

~G.

My Time Here is Coming to an End... Last Wk at the Centar

2009-07-18T10:01:00.001-07:00

This week our program was similar. Our crafts consisted of the following: port holes (using tissue paper to make seaweed and fish, and paper plates to make boat port holes); people chains out of construction paper; ceiling kites; and pop-out cards with dinosaurs in them. Yesterday we made rocket ships! We also made light houses out of plastic bottles, and ships.

Wednesday was movie day. Instead of paying 75KMs to do it outdoors at night, we opted for an indoor day of movies, costing only 1KM. :D We used white sheets of paper to make the screen, we used the centre´s projector and we used Advo´s DVD player. (Avdo was the man for movie days/nights.) In the morning we watched ´Monsters vs. Aliens´ and in the afternoon we watched ´Íce Age 3´.

All summer I have been dying to do paper mache with the kids. Although I only did it once in my life, I always thought it would be the perfect craft for kids. It´s fun, kids can be creative, and it is very time consuming. I got my wish on Thursday and Friday.

(Ryan and ´Gimpy´ helping the kids with their paper mache)

(Me being Sid from Ice Age Three)

Thursday morning we put the paste and paper on the balloons. After letting them dry on my balcony during our lunch break, we decorated them in the afternoon. Some of them even created alien creatures. (I guess they were inspired by the movie.) That night we bought candies from ´Best´, our large grocery store in town, with the remaining money we raised from Yoga. The following day we equally distributed the candy into all of the paper mache objects. Then on Friday we ended the summer with a bang!

(Chels, Brigette, and Ryan)

(Chilly (AKA Jill) looking like a child getting excited for Christmas morning!)

Friday morning we created our memory wall in the morning, which I will discuss in my next blog. In the afternoon we took the mache objects to the park and allowed the children to take turns hitting them down, blind folded of course. Then we finally got to play my favourite childhood water game: ´Over Under´. (It is a race between two teams to see who can use the water in the bucket at the front of the line to fill the water bottle at the back of the line. The catch is that the teams can only use holey water bottles and can only transfer the bottle of water over and under themselves to their team mates, hense the name.) Then we played a quick round balloon toss with partners before having th e largest water fight I have EVER had. We used the towns water fountain to get the water (it is right beside the park.) The kids, volunteers, teen group and I had a BLAST! I must have gotten drenched at least 15 times. Not to worry though, the temperature was a high of 40 degrees so it was perfect weather to get wet.

Everyone drenched after the water fight

Avdo (Teen Group Member), Chels, Jill, Bridge, Ryan and I

All in all, our last week of programs went VERY well! I think, and I hope, that we left a positive, fun impression on the children and the community.

A Little Home Sick

2009-07-18T09:36:00.000-07:00

Today I got am e-mail from my uncle and my high school friend. Both were about the camp I have worked at for 8 years back in Canada. Gemma, my friend, was telling me about how she mentored a class that had some of my students from last summer. Apparently, they were asking why I wasn´t back this summer and they seemed a bit upset. It is funny because today I was thinking about my job back home as well and missing everyone.

I love the people here but the language barrier has been a largest struggle for me, especially at the centre. I have handled a classroom of 30 students before without a problem; however, it is completely different when I know very little of the host country’s native tongue. For instance, sometimes there is teasing, bullying, and or name-calling that are happening right under my nose. (Side note: it was no more and no less than what you would find in any other camp.) Even when I find out about the situation, it is a bit difficult to facilitate. If I see people doing something inappropriate I will try to use the minimal Bosnian I know to explain that it is wrong. If a translator is present I will try to get them to explain to the children why their actions are not appropriate. However, there is only so much I can do. Moreover, it is really frustrating to feel like I am sometimes the only ˝bad cop˝ at the centre. Thus, although I have not eliminated teaching abroad from my options, I have realised that intensive language training prior to teaching abroad would be a necessity for me to feel confident in teaching and facilitating to the best of my ability.

Don´t get me wrong, I adore the kids and I have a good bond with the other Canadians. I am SO grateful to have had this opportunity and I cant wait to come back and visit the centre and all my neighbours. I have learned an immense amount since being here. I have discovered things about myself, I have gained another family, and I have been welcomed into an amazing community and have learned about the culture, conflicts, and peace movements here.
With that said... in a way I am glad that I am starting to miss home a bit because it will make it more bearable to leave a place that has become like a second home/community to me. Plus, I have gained some amazing memories, and I have experienced things I could have never imagined experiencing!

When in BiH be Courageous!

2009-07-17T11:39:00.000-07:00

Since coming to GVU my eating habits have changed. Besides eating everything in sight and being my little brother and sisters garbage, I have grown to love, or at least try, things I would never imagine having in Canada.

Last weekend while in Dubrovnik, I tried a dish with squid, amoung other seafood. The other day I tried a chickens heart for lunch; it was alright but without the potatoes it would be too gooshy for me.

Growing up I HATED sandwiches. Something about letting buttered bread touch the salome grossed me out! However, I have grown to not only like sandwiches, but I love them with TOMATOES! The other day I enjoyed a sandwich with cream cheese, tomatoes and salagne.

Moreover, I have learned to make some AMAZING dishes I cant want to try out at home! My family loves to make 'Fist in the Nose', which is meatballs, tomatoes and potatoes in boiled water. (mmm) My sisters favourite dish is a vegetarian dish called Sataraš. You cook onions in a pot of hot water. Then you add a variety of veggies like tomatoes, peppers, carrots, peas, etc. Then you eat it with tomato and cucumber salad, and bread, a staple in every meal. My mamas favourite is the same dish but the veggies are diced into tiny pieces, and rice is added.

Yesterday was my FAVOURITE day food wise. We had Sataraš for lunch (although I had it for 4 meals in a row after that meal ...mmm). It tasted almost like my Canadian parents freshly made pasta sauce. Then we had čevape for dinner and some baklava for dessert. In the middle of the night and in the morning I took some more baklava, not knowing it at was for the wedding my BiH parents are going to on Saturday. Whoops. I felt SO bad and apologized in the afternoon. However, my mama knew I didnt mean to so all was well. In fact that day my mama realised just how much I loved it SO ... my eyes popping out everytime I saw it probably gave it away. Thus, she asked if I wanted to learn how to make it after I was done work at the centre. Of course I said an enthusiastic ˝YES!˝

So at around 6pm today, Bridge, my little brother and sister, mama and I made Baklava. It took us about 30 minutes to prep, 30 minutes to bake, and 10 minutes to cool off (although it tastes better when it soaks in the sugary water for a long time).

The following is a recipe for Baklava:

1 kg sugar
1 litre of water
6 eggs
0.5 kg walnuts crushed
5 tablespoons of oil
0.25 cups (about 2 or 3 large tablespoons of butter)
thin dough sheets that are used for Bosnian pitas that when heated look like spring rolls

Heat the sugar and water in a pot. Bring it to a boil.
On a heated pan put butter.
Meanwhile mix the eggs. Then add in 4 additional tablespoons of sugar. Mix until it looks like banana pudding.
Add the oil to the mixture and then mix in all of the walnuts.
Unroll dough from roller it is on (there are about 10 layers/sheets) onto a hand towel.
Grease a large pan.
Put batter into icing/butter device.
Grease the dough using the butter from the pan, and use the icing device to pour two thin lines of the batter onto the bottom/edge of the dough.
Use the towel to roll the dough into a spring roll/crepe shape.
Put the finished rolls into the pan and grease them more using the butter.
Put it in the oven at around 200 until it is red/brown (roughly 20-30 minutes).
Pour the whole pot of water and sugar on all of the rolls and let it sit so that the baklava soaks up the sugary water.
Enjoy!

Well I am off to watch a movie with my little brother and sister. (Tomorrow we are suprising my family, mostly our mama, by cleaning the house and making crepes, which will include our secret banana whipped cream... mmmmmmmm and peaches)

Dubrovnik

2009-07-16T11:10:00.001-07:00

Last weekend I went with Jill and Ryan to Dubrovnik, Croatia. The bus ride was beautiful, especially the last 30 minutes when we could see the sea and all of the med. houses with red roofs and stecko.

The weekend was interesting and bittersweet. Not knowing the distance and exact location of our hostel we walked to our hostel from the new bus station, which was ~2.5 hours and more than 400 stairs later (I'm not joking!) On the upside, being near the top of the mountain did have its perks, i.e., the view of the city from our hostel was breath-taking.

However, I overworked myself at the Centar that week and was VERY sick (I had some kind of flu) during most of the weekend. Thus, walking more than 400 stairs every time I wanted to go to the beach, the hostel or get some food was ... bad news.

Once at the bottom of the mountain, we were able to see the Old Town, which had exquisite architecture. There were more ancient buildings than in Split. Jill and I walked on top of a wall that surrounded the Old Town for 2.5 hrs on Saturday and captured some amazing shots. The Harbour was a lot nicer than Split. With that said, I would go back to Split over Dubrovnik in a heartbeat! It definitely felt like a tourist hot spot, especially on Sat and Sunday when the Old Town felt like the mall on Boxing Day. Although it was cool to swim among the fish in the sea, the rocky beach was not fun! lol Jill joked that she never could understand why people were coming out of the sea with sour faces until she followed them.

With that said, we did pick a great weekend to Dubrovnik: seasonal festival was taking place. We got to see the fireworks on their opening night and I FINALLY got to see my FIRST ever opera. Although we JUST caught the tail end of it, my eyes were already starting to get watery from emotion. Oh, I can't wait to actually see a complete one!

The trip allowed Jill, Ryan and I to bond. After being more sick that I have in YEARS, I was going to stay in for the second night in a row. It was so painful because I LOVE festivals. I love seeing all the exhibits and performers, the artistic displays and smell the different spices in the air. But I barely made it up to the hostel in the afternoon and was scared, that was until I spoke with Jill and Ryan.

They were incredible friends that night! Jill said that I had to try and go, even if that meant walking down the stairs and then coming right back up again. They even said they would come back with me. I am so grateful to them. It turned out that my stomach was much better after ignoring it for a couple of hours, and we had a FABULOUS night! We bonded in an Irish pub and even got Ryan to sing a duet with Jill to a Taylor Swift song (although he liked mimicking girls in the summer so it shouldn't have been as exciting as it was for me).

On Sunday... we had the WORST luck. We missed our transit into the New Town in Dubrovnik. Then the bus home was sold out. (We weren't told to book our bus seats in advance and we never had a problem on any of our other excursions). Then we missed our third bus, got bad advice from a local employee at the station to take a cab and chase the bus, spent hundreds of dollars and ended up being stranded in a town halfway between Dubrovnik and GVU. (Oh, and the cab driver would only pass slow cars when the road became windy and there was a yellow, solid line on the road). While waiting for our neighbour who SAVED THE DAY and picked us up that night, we watched as the whole town came to the stadium beside the bus stop to watch a soccer game. It was cool to see the whole community come together to cheer on their local teams! Although the weekend was full of twists and turns, it mad for a GREAT story!

O.C. Week 7 & 8

2009-07-16T10:57:00.000-07:00

Since the American came to GVU, we, the ICVs, have modified our program a bit. Generally, we are doing Arts and Crafts in the morning and Sports in the afternoon.

Last week we made, ˝Coody catchers˝, Canadian flags out of tissue paper, binoculars, vases with tissue paper and bottles, and tissue paper flowers to put in the vase. We also decorated cards with stamps, and created pictures around objects we pasted onto the pages. Outside we mostly played ˝footbal˝, AKA soccer, and ˝graničara˝, AKA dodgeball. One day we had some fun playing ˝drunk mokeys˝. (Side note: This is how you play Drunk Monkeys: Two teams raced each other. Each person on the team would take their turn running to a stick, spinning around it five times, running back to their team and tagging the next person to go.) It was a BLAST but we were all VERY dizzy after playing a few games. Some days the girls would not want to play outside. Thus, we did leaf painting and other crafts with them indoors.

(For some reason the kids LOVE getting our autographs. At first it was on their art work but then it started to be on their arm. 15 minutes of fame anyone?! lol Just joking.)

Pictures from Om. Centar

2009-07-10T13:05:00.001-07:00

Typical arts and crafts day at the center (this is the main room)

Bridge with the morning kids

Jill and teen group friend, ˝Gimpy˝, while the kids played limbo after arts and crafts

Jill and I being silly before movie night (Charlie´s Angels pose)

Chelse during movie night

(I will put more up later...)

My BiH Family

2009-07-10T12:44:00.001-07:00

Mama, Baba, Franjo and Tata

(Franjo´s First Communion)

Erna (my sister) and I playing dress up while mama was making herself a pretty top :D

Franjo and I being silly around bedtime

Pepa (my oldest brother) holding up my cousin Krešo (I will try to put up a good pic of my second oldest brother ASAP)

Omladinski Centar Final Report

2009-07-07T12:23:00.000-07:00

BiH Experience 2009

My Involvement this Summer

Omadinski Centar:

This summer I was one of five volunteers from Canada who helped run and facilitate youth programs at the Omadinski Centar. During my first week in Gornji Vakuf Uspoplje (GVU) I got to knowmy host family- the Šenda family- and learn about previous programs Canadian volunteers implimented. Since then, we, Intercordia Canada Volunteers (ICV), have run fairly consistant and successful programs. Since the children had school for the first few weeks, we split the groups uop according to age. We ran programs for children under ~11 yrs of age (grade 5) in the morning, and a program for ages 12 and up int he afternoon. This way they could coem to our program when they werent in school. Now, we allow the children to come for either program; however, for the most part the AM and PM programs are fairly similar. They ran from 9:30-11:30 and 2-4. The following is a list of activities we did with them:

Monday- Arts & Crafts;

Tuesday- English;

Wednesday- Yoga;

Thursday- Dance;

Friday- Sports

Each activity would run for about half the alotted time. The remaining time would be filled with ˝filler games˝ such as ˝limbo˝, ˝huckle buckle˝, ˝musical chairs˝, ˝freeze dance˝, ˝pin ball˝,˝stella ella olla˝,etc.

My personal contribution was the following (note that my role extended beyond these responsibilities; they are just a brief overview/example):

Planning and prepping for the English lessons;

Assiting in prepping for the Arts & Crafts;

Running the yoga lesson;

Helping come up with dance routines and teaching the children;

Facilitating the sports;

Keeping the flow of the activities and trying to ensure the children were busy and content;

Making and putting up promotional posters;

(Note: Feel free to view my blog for a more extensive look at the program: http://georgiebosnia-herz09.blogspot.com/)

I also ran an Adult yoga class every Tuesday night at 7pm, which the assistance from my host sister and Brigette, another ICV. It was our intent to raise money for the Centar. Unfortunately, due to numerous reasons I will refrain from mentioning, the classes were not as successful as we had hoped. However, we have raised 14 KMs to date (It is now July 7th).

Outside of the Centar:

I have become honorary member of the Šenda family. I share the womenly, household duties of cleaning. I have been welcomed into the family. I am extremely pleased to have met the Šendas and to have had the opportunity to live with them this summer. I will forever be grateful.

I taught weekly yoga classes on Wednesdays for the month of June. I would teach it to my sister´s Karate class and teacher at her elementary school.

Most Enjoyable Experiences

Omladinski Centar:

I enjoy learning from others, their different teaching and organization skills. For instance, I loved seening how the Americans lined the children up before introducing a new activity, and how the otehr ICVs worked with a couple of the special needs children. I definitely loved being able to learn new crafts and activities I can use int he future.

More importantly, I love working with the children. I aspire to be an elementary teacher so this is a great experience for me. I loved Fridays and Mondays when the kids tried to teach me how to say Monday in Bosnian. I still have a hard time. It always made both the children and myself laugh. I love the beginning and end of each program when I would go around giving ´high fives´ to all the kids; they have grown to love and expect it. Moreover, I love when I have the chance to work one-on-one with the kids with activities and help teach them something new.

Home Life:

I love almost everything about my home life here in GVU. I even love doing chore with my sister because it gives us a chance to bond, learn new customs at home. It is also time spend conversing about life in GVU. I love when we have family times, whether it be playing ´UNO´-a card game from America- walking around the neighbourhood, family BBQs, etc.

I like spending time with my neighbours. Everyone is so friendly and welcoming. I enjoyed learning how to rollerblade from the local children and my sister, and playing outside with them. I am at awe with the amount of time children in this town spend outside. Moreover, it amazes me how quick people are to lend a helping hand. For instance, a few of our neighbours have helped my host family and I plant food and chop wood.

I really like going to community events. I have had the opportunity to go to three thus far. I went to a mass in the local grave yard, Pidriš, and a bonfire at the elementary school.

The strength of the bond in both my family and our community is amaying to witness. It is very new to me and I am trying to absorb the experience as best as I can.

Personal Successes

Omladinski Centar:

While some have veared off task at times, I have, for the most part, remained on task. I have planned a couple of English lessons by myself and I have taught yoga to numerous groups. (Although I attended yoga classes for two years and I researched yoga, this was my first time teaching classes.)

Home Life:

I quickly and smoothly intergrated myself into the family. I have helped my family with their daily activities. I try to help my sister with all of her cleaning duties. I have also helped with family chores such as planting, cleaning rugs, and chopping and collecting wood for the winter, all of which I have loved doing. I entertain my younger siblings, and I am slowly teaching one of my older brothers how to speak English. Moreover, I have become someone my sister can completely rely on.

Personal Shortcomings

My patience with the slow computers at the center has been tested a lot. I am used to high speed at home. However, I feel like it has allowed me to appreciate the fast Internet connection.

Although I have gotten better at procrastinating, I still find it difficult to arrive at places early and taking less time to get ready. For instance, since being here I am getting MUCH better at preparing lesson plans and writing reports ahead of schedule, but I havent mastered meeting people ahead of schedule.

Difficulties

Omladinski Centar:

The language barrier has been the largest struggle for me. I have handled a classroom of 30 students before without a problem; however, it is completely different when I know very little the host country´s native tongue. For instance, sometimes I am unaware of negative situations until it is too late. Sometimes there is teasing, bullying, and or namecalling that is happening right under my nose. Regularly, I would not tolerate that and I would have a three step process: a warning, a conversation with their parent if possible, and a follow up conversation. Even when I find out about the situation, it is a bit difficult to facilitate. If I see people doing something inappropriate I will try to use the minimal Bosnian to explain that it is wrong. If there is a translator on hand I will try to get them to explain why their actions are not appropriate.

My only other challenge is working with people who do not pull their own weight. There are always going to be people who work harder than others and who are more passionate at their jobs. However, I have found it incredibly challenging to facilitate programs when some of the adults are disrupting the program. With that said, I have tried to do my best to ensure that I give the children, and this job my full attention and 100% of my effort. Moreover, in the end they came around. (I just have to remind myself that some people take longer than others and at least they got there, grew as people and did help make other's experience wonderful.)

Home Life:

In Canada I have always had a lot of privacy. I have, for the most part, been an ownly child who´s parents worked long hours. I has always been my dream to live in a large family, and this summer my wish has been answered. With that, I have had to adjust a bit. I am used to having ample amounts of time to read, write, etc. Moreover, I ususally have the freedom to go in and out of the house as I please. I have never dealt with people wanting to always be around me, helping me clean my room, see everything I buy, sample all my gifts, and want to play and be with me 24/7. It was hard constantly explaining that I had school work and work at the Centar to do. With that said, I love living with my family and I have learned how to compromise and let people in.

Personal Flaws to Conquer & Good Attributes

Once again, I would like to learn how to be more patient, and become more prompt.

I work well with children and I have a very postive attidude. Most of the time I have a smile on my face and bring energy to the group. Since I have worked with children in numerous settings, such as indoor and outdoor camps and volunteering in elementary classrooms, for over 10 years I am full of ideas.

Overall thoughts on Center

Successes:

Overall, I think that OC is a positive atmosphere where children from different religious backgrounds to mix. It is a great example for the community.

Potential Improvements:

I think that more promotion for teen involvement from the Catholic side would allow be something to consider.

I think that it would be good for a person in a managerial position to come into the room

mid term evals: good for both boss and student volunteers

laguage training prepped b4 at beginning and throughout

handbook and more placement training

random check ins

By: Sabrina George

Split

2009-07-07T02:49:00.000-07:00

I loved Split. Getting off the bus I saw palm trees, cruise ships, the sea, souvenirs and people relaxing outside on swanky chairs enjoying the scenery. Right away I knew I would love the town.

The hostel was quiet but very nice. It was also VERY close to the old town, being 2 minutes from the green market, park with the famous saint, and the old town. The beach was nothing special. It seemed like a beach at a cottage lake. With that said, it was awesome to be able to say that I was swimming in the Adriatic Sea! When we arrived, there was a huge down pour. Thus, we spent the afternoon souvenir shopping underneath tarps. Then we walked around the palace. We saw a quartet singing and trying to sell their CDs, a bride and groom doing a photo shoot, little boys throwing water balloons at us while we were making our own photo shoot. Then we got a quick bite to eat and headed down to the main strip.

On Friday night, the main strip had a dance festival, similar to ones in Toronto. A bunch of children were performing a variety of dances. It reminded me of summers with my parents in Toronto, but with a MUCH better backdrop. We also met a famous former basketball player who showed us around that night. (I am not that into cars but we got to ride around in Mercedez and Sebring convertibles all night and hang out at a place near their stadium which was awesome!)

Saturday, we went to the beach. The first time we went in the water for 30 minutes before it started to rain. Then we looked around the palace again, rubbed the foot of a saint and made a wish, and then we went up to the top of a famous hill-Marian- where the view of the city was SPECTACULAR! (Well worth the hundreds of stairs). We went to the beach one more time and then checked out the beach clubs along the coast, although we opted to relax at a local cafe. Lastly, we walked along the coast at night. It reminded me of last summer when I viewed Toronto with Judee (my co-worker and friend) and her friends from lakeshore at night (it was spectacular).

Saturday night we also went back to the main strip. There was a huge celebration because it was a food company´s 50th anniversary. We got free food and drinks and got to watch chiefs at work. Then I was chosen to salsa dance with a professional dancer in front of hundreds of people. I also got some free goodies. Lastly, I got to see my future husband, Luka Nižetić, serenade me. (Just joking) But I did get to see the Croatian singer from Eurovision perform 3 songs, and I got to take a picture with him and Jill.

Sunday, Jill and I ventured back to GVU on our own.

Canada Wk with American in BiH :D

2009-07-02T11:04:00.000-07:00

For more than 10 years, a group of Americans have come to the center to help out. They usually have a two-week seminar for the kids. They get the kids to make about 6 crafts a day, 3 in the morning and 3 in the afternoon. Unfortunately for the kids, the Americans could only come for a week this time. Nonetheless, we have all had a blast and learned a lot thus far.

I am also really glad that we could finally get some more supplies. (The Americans bring suitcases full of glue sticks, scissors, and other arts and craft supplies every year.)

Below are a few pictures from this week. They include my Canada Day pictures. (Since the Americans are running the show this week and we are support for them, we have decided to have an entire Canada week next week. I am very excited for that.)

(Please note I have not put my CDN DAY pics with fam and my crazy outfit yet)

Week 6

2009-06-25T07:01:00.000-07:00

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This week has been a lot lighter than usual.

Monday: I was very excited about this week´s craft: Rodolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. (My family had called me Rodolph a couple of times after coming home with a burnt noses). Thus, in the afternoon, I made one for my mama. My family laughed when I presented it to them. :D We also go the kids to make 3D apples/watermelon since our theme for the week was Fruits and Vegetables.

Tuesday: We played the same IC game with the children. However, this time the children had to find the person with a picture of the fruit/veggie that matched the English word. (We went over the words prior to the activity like the previous week.) We also played memory, and then human bingo. However, this time we gave each person a piece of paper that had their fruit/veggie on it. They taped it to the front of their shirts. The bingo sheets had pictures of the food. I have to give Ryan the credit for the last game; he was definitely thinking outside of the box and came up with the game which was a great alternative to our original idea. You see, we initially wanted to play regular bingo. However, in the end the BINGO sheets ended up being the same. Instead of redoing them he suggested editing it to be more like human bingo. It turned out very well. I also decided to bring out the stickers; I don't know if it was a good or bad decision. The kids LOVED them and they went nuts trying to find ways to get more and more of them. lol

Mon. Night- Registration for University Classes & Coffee with Mediha : Tuesday afternoon was very stressful for me. It seemed like anything that could go wrong with registering for fall classes went wrong. However, in the end everything worked out. It was also night to go out to Coffee with Ryan, Chels and Mediha, and get my mind off of things! :D I also discovered an alternative place to write e-mails. They have an Internet cafe across the street from the centre. Although the smoke causes me to have migraines, it is a great place to go to when I need a fast computer. (I.e. for registering this week and preregistering for classes next week.) It also has really good N.American music!

Tues. Night- Adult Yoga & Bonfire: Yoga was good but the mother and teen who came made great suggestion for us to create more professional posters and post them up everywhere, not just in two different places in town. I also got some homework: I have to look up some sequences for next week. Hopefully, the lady will bring some of her friends for next week´s session. Since Chels and Brigette went to Zagreb´s music festival this week, I recruited my sister, Erna to help with the yoga class. It was very nice of her. Afterwards, we joined the rest of our family, friends and neighbours at a community bonfire held in their elementary school´s front yard. It was a lot of fun and another example of how the community comes together on a regular basis. Our neighbourhood friends´ parents BBQed and provided drinks for everyone. The children ran under the bonfire, played tag, etc while the parents gathered and sang songs. There was also a display of fireworks. Although I left well before the fire died down, it is apparently tradition to jump on the ashes at the end of the night. Then before getting ready for bed, I showed one of my older brothers the large pieces of paper containing Hrv/Eng phrases that I brought from the Centar. We practiced them together, him in English and me in Croatian/Bosnian. My sister brought my mama to witness our English/Croatian/Bosnian lessons. She was pleasantly surprised! I think my family has hope for us! :D I feel comfortable trying to speak in front of my older brother because he is in the same place as I am. I am definitely becoming more confident in attempting to speak the language. Even if they do laugh at me at my failed attempts I know that I am trying and so do they. :D

Funny story: Last night my sister, little brother, mama and I were sitting in the living room. My sister was telling me how the cat bit her for no apparent reason. I asked it Croatian, ˝How do you say, ´our´˝? She said, ˝ Sat˝. Confused I asked her again and she answered with the same word. Thus, I said, ˝Sat mačka luda!˝. I was the joke of the family for the rest of the night. Needless to say, I will never forget that ´our´ translated in Hrv/Bos is´naša´.

Thursday: Due to a city council meeting in our building, we had to cancel programs. Thus, Ryan, Jill and I were able to use to time to clean out the programming rooms, catch up on Intercordia commitments and work on personal things, i.e., my blog entries.

This Weekend: Ryan, Jill (AKA Chilly) and I are going to Split. We will be back on Sun.

All the best this weekend,

~G.

Week 5

2009-06-25T05:49:00.000-07:00

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The Centar:

Monday: We made caterpillars for the second week, this time using a new technique and taping them from the ceiling. We also made butterflies from hand prints.

Tues: Bridge helped me with the English this week. One of our activities was inspired by an Intercordia Canada activity from one of our seminars. The activity involved Lisa/MaryBee passing around pieces of paper to everyone. Written on them were common phrases from Canada and from around the world. We had to go around the room finding a phrase from Canada that matched one from another country. The purpose was to see commonalities among the countries´ phrases. For our English class, I changed the activity a bit.

Bridge, Jill and I wrote 25 common phrases on large pieces of papers. They had the questions and the answers, i.e., How are you? I am good thank you., and then the phrases were written in Bosnian underneath. We went through the phrases one by one. A translator from the teen group would say the phrase in Bosnian, one of us from IC would say it in English and then the children would repeat it in English. After going through it a couple of times we would give the children pieces of paper. Half of them had the questions and half had the answers to the questions, all in English. (We left the large sheets up as an aid.) Once they found the person with the other half of the phrase, the two of them would sit. Once everyone was seated, we went around getting the children to share their phrases.

The second activity many people are familiar with: Human Bingo. For those who aren't, it is a game where everyone gets a sheet full of statements, i.e., I have a piercing, I am planning to watch Kung Fu Panada at the Centar this week, etc. The people playing have to go around the room trying to find people who can answer yes to the statements. Then they have to sign the statement they can attest to. You can only sign to one of the statements per sheet. The first person to have signatures for each statement wins and says ˝BINGO˝. For our game we asked everyone to ask in English.

Like always, the remaining time in our program was dedicated to indoor games.

Tues Night: We had our first Adult Yoga class, which I have already discussed in another post

Wed: We had to cancel our movie night because of the bad weather. Yoga went well.

Thurs: Our dance was to Rihanna´s ˝Disturbia˝. It was full of robot moves, the monster moves from Michael Jackson´s ˝Thriller˝, I'm a Little Tea Pot moves, sports, etc. It was a silly and fun dance. We also did the previous dances with the children. :D

Thursday night we had our Movie Night at the Centar. We showed ˝Kung Fu Panda˝ on a large screen outside the center. It was a hit! There were a lot of families and children from the center watching the movie. Hopefully we can have another one; it costs quite a lot though so hopefully we can get more people out to Adult Yoga to help with the expenses. We´ll see.

Friday: We played a bunch of games outside. We started with ˝Everyone´s it˝ (which I learned while working up North), then did a bunch of filler games like ˝Curly, Larry & Moe˝ (which I learned in a high school conference), ˝Steal the Bacon˝, etc., before going into large games of dodge ball and or soccer.

I learned a new version of Dodge ball. Everyone is in the ˝In Zone˝ except for the team captions who were in the regular ˝Out Zones˝ along the back. When someone gets out they switch with their captions.

Friday Night: For some strange reason I was hesitant when my youngest siblings wanted to help clean my room. After a few minutes, I agreed to letting them, and what I ever happy I did! It was a blast! We went through the supplies my mom sent me from Canada, and the supplies i brought. One thing I brought were capsules from Dollarama that changed into spongy objects when submerge in hot water. My brother´s face while watching his object take form was PRICELESS! After Franjo, Erna and I made one for ourselves and our two other brothers my mama arrived home. After surprising her with a spotless bedroom, we showed her our sponge insects. My mama wanted to make one for herself and get my tata to make one as well. Thus, a few minutes later, Franjo, Erna, mama, tata and I were surrounding a little glass of hot water and a capsule yelling the insect we guessed tata would be. Tata really wanted to be a frog, while mama knew better and said he was going to be a butterfly. It was hilarious! The children in them were coming out! Even when wings were emerging my tata was still hoping he would get a frog. Unfortunately, his spongy object was a butterfly. It was one of the highlights of the summer! The objects can still be seen from outside my window. :D

Saturday: During the week my family was washing their rugs outside. On Friday I joined in during my lunch break. I found it fun, strangely enough. Thus, on Saturday I was excited to have a chance to go through the whole process with my little brother and sister. We lathered it, hosed it down, used the back of the broom to get rid of the excess water, soap and dirt, and then repeated the sequence. Then my sister rolled up the rug, and my brother put the hose through the top of it. Then we put the rug on the fence and my brother hosed it one last time.

Last Wed: Happy Unbirthday to Me!!!

2009-06-16T13:07:00.001-07:00

Although ˝Alice in Wonderland˝ was one Disney movie I utterly detested, I will always remember the Mad Hatter saying ˝Happy Very Unbirthday to Me, to Me, to Me˝ during the tea party. It was the first thing that came to me when being handed my package in the GVU post office.

The joy that comes from getting a package from home is indescribable! My mom back home gets A LOT of brownie points! Thank you, thank you, thank you! It was filled will all types of goodies such as a small, colourful, ultra soft towel which I am guessing came from Costco, sour keys and caramel cubes (which my BiH sister is becoming obsessed with and is helping me devour), a more organized, thorough BiH/Eng. dictionary & and CD, 4 notebooks (3 ecojot- a lrg, med and sm one, and 1 with a really pretty interior), my ˝Find and Seek˝ book (which I have been enjoying with my younger siblings almost ever day and had bought in Cda from Costco), some crucial info and a card, a smaller backpack from home, and much needed vitamins. Lastly, she sent me suppliers for the Centar including pipe cleaners, more stickers, feathers and googly eyes. :D:D

Nothing is better at the end of a crummy day than a special item/gift from a loved one. Whether it is small or large, the thought is what matters. I am ever so grateful! Every time I use an item a sheer joy comes across me. Thank you.

I also need to make a shout out to my friend, Jas, from UW who has HARRODS cookies waiting for me for when I get back to KW; you are the best!

Also, if I havent already said it, thank you to Knights of Columbus for your generous contributions! :D

After ~ 10 Years My Fear Has Resurfaced!

2009-06-16T12:45:00.000-07:00

Growing up I was attacked by a cat twice. The first time was directed solely at me and the second time was directed at a little girl and I was unlucky bystandered in the room at that time. Both times involved the same cat; my childhood bff´s cat. It took me a VERY long time to gradually become comfortable around cat, sometimes even loving them. My friend Gemma, and my childhood bff´s new cat helped with the process. However, all that was washed away last night.

I don't know if the gate I moved trying to get into my yard did something to my cat (it was 11pm at this time so I couldn't really see anything), or if she was just hungry, wanted food, remembered that I caved last week and gave her and her kittens some food (sh!). What ever the reason, on my way to the stairs to show my sister my hair (it was curly from putting my hair in Princess Layla buns; me trick to wavy hair) the cat bit me TWICE!

The first time was soft. Soft enough that I thought maybe she was playing with my moving ankle. However, seconds later I felt a much more distinct bit and saw her mouth around my leg. Although she did not leave any bite marks, she left a mental mark!

Needless to say, my fear is back. It took a very long time to get to sleep. As well, I CRINGED and had an increased heart rate when she purred, and circled around my legs this afternoon. Moreover, I am terrified of her in the morning and at night (when she is the hungriest and the time of the incident).

I am hoping that with the help of my youngest brother and my sister, I will be able to conquer this fear once again. At least by the end of my stay in GVU. For now I will be doing many prayers and be cringing and squealing silently.

Wish me good luck! Eek!

~G.

First Adult Yoga Session

2009-06-16T11:28:00.000-07:00

I just came from teaching my first full blown yoga session. Since we put up the fliers rather late, there was only one adult other than the four other ICVs who attended.

In order to prepare, I browsed a VERY good yoga site last night. Within the site there are different poses broken into categories, i.e., ˝back bend poses˝. You can also choose poses and create sequences. (I will try to post the website as soon as possible.) Then I wrote my own sequences, including pictures, in my notebook. This afternoon I did a test run to nail down the timing.

The class itself went very well. We did breathing, a downward dog sequence, a warrior pose sequence, a sphinx/dolphin sequence, two centre sequences, my floor option, and then finishing off with the corpse pose (resting and working on breathing). All of which I organized myself. We ended the night with ˝Namaste˝ and mint tea.

The only hard thing was keeping my composure. I wish I could be in the zone like my handy assistant, Bridge. Seeing people fumble around and whisper words of frustration was unexpected and quite funny (sh!). The children´s yoga is much more relaxed so laughing is fine but having a serious class where I have to be aware of how to explain the correct way to get into and out of positions while keeping a serious face is definitely something I need to work on.

Lastly, I am very excited to teach some of the new sequences to the kids tomorrow. Variation is key to keeping them interested in the long run.

~G.

Week 4 @ the Centar & Pidriš

2009-06-15T03:24:00.000-07:00

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The Centar:

Monday: We made fish and jelly fish with the children.

Tues: We taught the children occupations. We did the yes/no guessing game in three groups. Then we split the kids up into two groups. One group would go outside and do some filler games like ˝Winds of Change˝, while the other group stayed inside and played a game of jeopardy using the occupations. For instance, if the card said, ˝I teach children how to defend themselves˝, the kids would have to guess, ˝Who is a Karate Teacher˝. (There were 2 translation sheets translations for the different occupations per group.) After 15 minutes, the groups would switch.

Thurs: We made a short dance to ˝Jenny from the Block˝ by J-Lo.

Friday: Since the other volunteers went to Belgrade, I had a low key day with the children. We made crafts for half of the time and then played filler games such as Limbo, A LOT of Musical Chairs, Buckle Buckle, etc. I got them to make hand prints/plate suns and chain caterpillars.

The others left on Thursday at 2:30pm. For some reason I was nervous about teaching the program alone. I don't know why since I have been teaching classes alone for the past few summers. I suppose is was because I had gotten used to them With that said, with the exception of a couple of times when i felt like I was in a zoo, Thursday and Friday went very well!! I enjoyed my time. In the morning I had my little helpers. It was a lot quieter, and the children and I had a blast playing games, dancing, and doing Arts and Crafts. During the evening I took some time to organize our main programming room. I put up all the kids artwork, and cleaned the shelves. Then my sister and our friend came to get me and I went home to spend the rest of the evening with family.

There were a few reasons why I did not go with them to Belgrade. However, the main reason was because my sister had invited me to go with the rest of our family and neighbours to Pidriš on Saturday.

Pidriš

On Saturday we left bright and early: between 7-8am. It was a very long and tiring walk. It took us about 3 hours and it was mostly uphill. My sister and I travelled with her three school friends. My brothers, tata and neighbours left an hour later. It reminded me of a pilgrimage that my Baba, Deda, mom and I went to back in Canada. It seemed like the whole Catholic community was there, some travelling by foot and others my car. While there, we attended 1.5 masses, looked at souvenirs, and my sister and her friends got ice cream. (I was saving room for the BBQed lunch my family and neighbours were preparing). It was nice to see the community coming together. It reminded me of the mass I attended a few weeks before. The mass took place in a grave yard where most of the diciest from the town were buried. People brought bouquets of flowers and lit numerous candles for the mass. We prayed over those that had gone before us. Both events were very powerful and emotional. My only wish was for my family from Canada to have experienced these things with me.

Our lunch took place half way between Pidriš and home. It was near a well we stopped at on the way to the church. We rested, conversed and ate DELICIOUS food. I had steak, čevapi, tomato and cucumber salad, etc. It was great!

The journey to and from Pidriš was awesome! We came across mini strawberries, wells, and foot long leaves. We took many silly pictures. On the way home the sides of the path were ramped. It reminded us of a skate board park. It was tradition for the girls to run up and down them. Who was I to fight tradition. (It was a blast!)

Parental Surprise, Water Tossing and Movie Nights:

Since my mama pulled a double shift on Friday and Saturday, and missed Pidriš, I wanted to do something special for her. Thus, my sister and I made her and the rest of our immediate family crepes. As toppings we made homemade banana whipped cream (consisting of 3 egg whites, 2-3 spoon fulls of sugar and 3 mushed bananas whipped), diced strawberries, and 2 pieces of nutted chocolate. Tata and mama were overjoyed! :D

Afterwards, we were allowed to play outside with the water balloons I brought from Canada and one of our neighbours. We filled them up, tossed them to each other, and virtually got soaked! them we sprayed the hose on each other (Sh!)

That weekend we also watched two English movies (with Hrv subtitles): Oceans Eleven and Parent Trap. We wanted to try eating popcorn with chocolate (like Katie Holmes in ˝The First Daughter˝). However, there are no decent priced M&Ms in town. thus, we tried cutting up regular dark chocolate and putting them into VERY salty popcorn. The result: a disgusting mess! lol It was worth a try! :D

The Americans are coming soon and Ive asked for M&Ms so my sister, little brother and I can try it the N.American way before she leaves for Croatia on a class trip in a month.

What a GREAT weekend!!!

~G.

Food Habits

2009-06-09T03:02:00.000-07:00

Isn’t it funny how we become more tolerable to things when in a foreign place. For instance, for as long as I can remember I have hated kiwi and tomatoes. However, since experiencing my first tastes here in BiH I have grow to LOVE them and have eaten them A LOT (salted tomatoes are a staple to my daily meals). Since I don’t have chocolate chip cookies, milk or that much cereal, I have become extremely obsessed with chocolate, eating it every day in some form or another.

Week 3 at the Centar & Sarajevo

2009-06-06T06:22:00.000-07:00

It was Oriental Week. For arts and crafts we created colourful fans and dragons. We (ICVs) acted out a story about a Panda trying to save the Geisha from a dragon in China. We were trying to teach the children directions. Before the story, we held up pictures that showed different directions and stated the directions in both Croatian and English. When the kids heard the directions during the story they had to act them out. As well, we used pictures with the name of objects/characters in the story in both Bosnian and English as props to help the kids who didn’t know that much English. Our dance for this week was to ˝Poker Face˝ by Lady Gaga. We video taped it again. (Our dances keep getting better as the weeks progress.) My hope is to somehow burn the songs onto one CD and present it at the reintegration. (As long as Chels and Bridge are up for it. I’m crossing my fingers.)

I taught Yoga in exchange for karate lessons for the third week in a row. Chels and I have decided to teach adults yoga every Tuesday at around 7pm. Hopefully, we can start next week or the week after. We are also planning on having our first movie night next week or the week after. We’re thinking of showing Kunfu Panda.

Last weekend we (ICVs) went to Sarajevo. We stayed at Hotel City Centre. The hostel was REALLY pretty and it had cereal!!! (Jill and I have been craving it for a very long time.) The people there were like-minded and worldly. I had some great conversations, and I had a blast in the evenings with them. We also went on a tour to The Tunnel, which acted as a gateway during the war. We learned about some of the history of that time. The tour was well worth it!
All in all it was a great weekend, but on Sunday I was glad to be back home with my family!

Tomorrow I will be visiting my Hrv. baba. My next trip wont be for another few weeks but I am happy to be able to relax and spend some time with my family. Then in July we will be going to Dubrovnik and Split, which I am VERY excited about!

~G

Second Wk of Programming

2009-05-28T12:12:00.000-07:00

( Please note this has not been editted. )

As the second week of camp draws to an end I thought I would update everyone on our progress.

On Monday we sucessfully had an arts and crafts session with the younger and older grades. They made animal puppets and then played games for the remaining time. Brigette and Jillian headed A&C activities and the rest of us assisted.

On Tuesday, I implimented my English program. I decided to use an activity we did during Speak English in KW where a pile of words are put in the middle of the group. Since this week was Animal week, the papers had types of animals written in English and in Croatian/Bosnian. Without looking at the words, each person took a piece of papers and stuck it onto their forehead. Then everyone in the group took turns asking yes/no questions and tried to guess what their animal was. The rule was that they could ask the questions in their native tongue; however, when they guessed their animal they had to do so in English. For instance, they might ask, ˝am I a pig?˝. The most of the kids liked playing the game and the other volunteers requested we use the game for future weeks. Afterwards the prorgam changed depending on the age groups. The younger children, grades 1-4, got to listen to us act out the story of the three little pigs. During which they were cued to do actions during certain parts. I.e., they had to push their noses up and make pig noises when we said the word ˝pig˝ during the story. After reading the story we sang Old Mc Donald Had a Farm and gave them a word search witht the same animals used for the song. (I made the word searches after having complications witht he computers). The students in grade 5-8 with little-medium English experience had to to an activity after they read the Three Little Pigs story. They had to write what their favourite character and or their favourite part in the story was and draw a picture. The older students with more English experience went outside with me. We took turns reading The Wolfs Side of the Story. Afterwards, I got the students to try making a comic strip based on the story. They were allowed to chose which point of view they wanted to focus on (either the wolfs or the pigs´) and were able to jazz it up. They had a bit of difficulty with that but enjoyed themselves.

On Wednesday Chels and I ran three yoga classes at the Centar. They were short but good; they were about 20 minutes each. Afterwards, we played games with them. Once the program was done for the day, we finalized our dance for Thursday. Then I went with my sister to her Karate class. I did Karate for 15 minutes and then I taught Erna´s class and her instructor Yoga for 30 minutes. He has asked me to do it as much as I can; I agreed to every Wednesday for now. (I still need to look into having classes for Adults at the Centar once a week.)

Today we taught the students a dance. It was a collaborated effort from all of us ICVs. It was to ˝Give it Up to Me˝ by Sean Paul. The dance was brilliant! I brought my camera to capture the moment but the student didnt turn it on so unfortunately it was not filmed. (I really hope I can get it video taped next week but Im not holding my breath; the other ICV, especially Ryan were hesitant on been video taped).

Tomorrow we are going to have sports for the younger students and then we are planning to head off for the weekend.

G.

1st wkend trip: Mostar & Surrounding Areas

2009-05-28T08:17:00.000-07:00

Two weekends ago I went to Mostar with the other ICVs. I was worried that we would be staying at a grungy hostel like the one I stayed at in NYC. However, I was pleasantly surprised. The owner of the hostel met us at the bus station with a sign. He was very energetic and set a really good tone for a great weekend. It was a 4 bedroom apartment that had a Middle Eastern colour scheme/vibe. Our room had 4 bunk beds and backed onto a little patio complete with bench seats and a relaxing vibe. The other people staying in the hostel were very friendly and worldly.

We spend Friday afternoon walking around Mostar, seeing the famous bridge and the people jumping off the bridge, and viewing the tourist shops. Then we went out with some of the other people from the hostel.

Me Infront of Mostas Famous Bridge

Jill & I

The Whole BiH ICV Gang (Chels, Jill, Me, Bridge, & Ryan)

On Saturday we took a tour with our crazy tour guide. The transportation was exciting; fifteen of us piled into a group van. Enough said. We went to a bunch of places, which I will add in later (I left my notebook with the names of the locations at home). There were a few major parts of the trip. However, my favourite parts of the day consisted of water. We went to a place that had numerous, gigantic waterfalls. Chels, Ryan and I swam to the falls and stood right beside them. Then we swung from a rope into the water. Determined to get a good picture, I was the only one to jump three times, each time jumping from a higher height. The last time I jumped from approximately 10 feet! It was exhilarating! We also went to a railway/bridge. Initially I didn’t even want to cross it because the there were holes between the tracks and the drop was about 10-15 feet. However, I wanted to push myself and conquer my fears of heights. Thus, with the help of a new Aussie friend, I jumped from the bridge into the water; I was the only ICV, and 1 of 4 (out of 14 ppl) to jump! It was the most exciting day I have had in YEARS! I will forever remember those moments!

The Famous Forts Outside of Mostar (in Either Počitelj or Blagaj)

Kravica!!!

(Ryan, Chels and I swam to the rock right beside Brigette´s (the one in the yellow) right arm!!! :D)

I jumped off the bridge !!! :D Goodbye fear of heights... sort of..

My only disappointment was not being about to visit MeĐugorje. However, with the persistence of my newfound friends, we were able to convince the tour guide to stop for a brief pit stop so I could buy my mother a birthday present.

The tour lasted 14 hours. Afterwards, I called it a night and prepared for my journey back to GVU the next day.

Georgie

Prepping on a Saturday; Teacher in the Making!

2009-05-23T05:17:00.000-07:00

Jill, Bridge and I are at the centre prepping for next week. Initially I was worried about everything coming together because there was not that much structure. However, seeing the dedication in the girls and having a day of organizing English and Craft lesions, is making me excited for next week.

As I’ve previously mentioned, we’re going to have themed weeks. Last week was The Circus so we made masks and juggling balls for Art and Bridge taught baton twirling. This week is Farm Animals. The kids will be making paper bag puppets. I am currently working on a lesson plan for English that will hopefully include a word search, a couple of activities, songs, stories, and maybe a brief news article. I just found a really good website for teachers. It includes activites and crafts that are related to The Three Little Pigs. I have decided to get the students to read the story and then create their own version of the story. (My friend and coworker, Judee, did a similar activity with her grade 7 students last summer). Brigette, Jill and I also decided on the following weeks theme since we will be away and won´t be able to prep next weekend. We will be doing Oriental Week. The girls are working on crafts for the kids, which include fans and finger painted dragons. I´m excited already!

We have also decided on making each day of the week a different subject. Thus, Mondays will be Art, Tues. English, Wed Yoga, Thurs. dance, and Fri Sports. We’re going to do roll call/attendance at the beginning of class (last week there were too many kids showing up and although we reacted well by splitting them up it was still a bit chaotic) and go over rules (i.e., everyone helps clean up, no one is allowed to touch the equipment unless told otherwise, etc.). I am glad that the other volunteers have agreed to create rules for the programs because last week a lot of the supplies went missing. These included my personal craft supplies, some of which I had been saving for YEARS. Also, it was very disappointing to have been disrespected and to see that my supplies were taken, used, and or no long in sight; it was definitely a wake up call/learning experience. This week also made me realise how much the children like to dance!

On Wednesday I taught the other volunteers my orientation week dance; the song is ´shook me all night long´ by ACDC. On Thursday, we taught the children. Since then the children have been requesting to do it non-stop. For instance, we have done in at the centre at least 5 more times, and my neighbours have done it outside at least 10 times. It is nice to know that the children enjoy it as much as we do. It’s funny because most of the moves are corny ones like ´the shopping cart´, ´karate moves´, ´skipping rope´, etc. Yoga was also a huge success. It was funny trying to pack 30 children into a small room and trying to get them to concentrate on their breathing. The directors of the centre also want us to create Yoga classes for adults. I think I will start to organize that next week. Moreover, I finally had a chance to go to my sister´s karate class and the instructor asked me to teach them some yoga. So in front of 20 students and about 30 spectators I taught a VERY brief introduction to Yoga. Afterwards, I found out that the instructor wants me to come every other day to teach for half the class; I told my sister I might come once a week. Later on, I went running with my sister and ~10 other neighbourhood kids at the Croat, elementary schools´ track field. After running, they wanted to do another yoga session. I just can’t believe how into it everyone is. It’s the fad in BiH right now!

ACDC

2009-05-21T10:05:00.000-07:00

Today we had a very successful day at the Centar. Since the kids like learning dance routines and my friends from first year refuse to do our FROSH/Orientation dance anymore, I decided to reintroduce it in BiH. I taught the other leaders last night and then today we taught the youger kids int he morning and the older ones in the afternoon. It was a SUCCESS!!! The older group ended up doing it for about an hour; they could not get enough of it. Jill has two videos of it. The video is HALARIOUS because Jill, Bridge and I were SO into it!! (I was embarassingly enthusastic!!)

Being Sick in BiH

2009-05-21T02:58:00.001-07:00

It´s only been two weeks and I´ve been really sick twice. I´ve been having a fever, getting heat flashes, not being able to eat that much, the works. Then when I was just starting to get better and only have a runny nose and gross throat I would get sick again. I definitely think I need to stop sharing my water bottles and start taking my vitamins. Also, I need to keep taking Iron because I´m getting too light headed.

I´ve been trying to put a strong front but man am I feeling it. Oh well, I just need to keep treking. :D

~G.

Yoga

2009-05-14T07:46:00.000-07:00

While thinking about my first ever yoga class, I was wondering what ´Namaste´- a phrase said at the end of a yoga class while sitting cross legged and bowing- meant and if saying it would be offensive to the students.

According to http://www.yogajournal.com/basics/822, ˝The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart chakra. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another. "Nama" means bow, "as" means I, and "te" means you. Therefore, Namaste literally means "bow me you" or "I bow to you." … Bowing the head and closing the eyes helps the mind surrender to the Divine in the heart. ... Ideally, Namaste should be done both at the beginning and at the end of class. Usually, it is done at the end of class because the mind is less active and the energy in the room is more peaceful. The teacher initiates Namaste as a symbol of gratitude and respect toward her students and her own teachers and in return invites the students to connect with their lineage, thereby allowing the truth to flow—the truth that we are all one when we live from the heart. ˝ Although North Americans say, ˝namaste˝ while doing the gesture, in India the gesture implies the word.

Based on the meaning, the BiH ICVs think it´s acceptable to repeat this ritual at the end of the yoga classes. What are your thoughts?

Travnik & Prepping for Cirus Wk/Wk One of OC Program

2009-05-14T07:07:00.000-07:00

Today started with the 5 of us volunteers and our boss Selma travelling to Travnik to register as residents in BiH. While there, we walked around and visited a castle that was behind a cascading waterfall. Then we went to ˝Plava Voda˝ to have lunch. Our table was right beside a running stream and windmill. We ordered cevapi & bread to share and I ordered a salad, which consisted of coleslaw, tomatoes, carrots and cucumbers (not the traditional Cdn salad but it was pretty tasty and healthy).

Travelling there and back was better sweet. The van was stifling hot and there were no windows in the back. With that said, the views were spectacular. We went around mountains on windy roads, and were completely surrounded by the mountains. Hopefully I’ll be able to post some pictures. (I forgot to bring my USB cord for my camera.)

Once back at the Centar, I spoke to Selma and Wilma about our programs. As a group we’ve altered the programs due to the popularity of some activities, such as yoga, sports and baton, and the limited space for the programs.

Next weeks programs will consist of the follow: juggling and games on Monday; art& crafts (mask making) on Tuesday; English and two Yoga classes on Thursday; Sports and two baton classes on Thursday; & English and Sports on Friday.

Although my group and I are travelling to a nearby city this weekend, I want to allocate some of my time towards creating more concrete lesson plans. Perhaps I will do this during our travel periods to the cities.

- Georgie

General Overview of my First Week

2009-05-12T09:41:00.000-07:00

Here’s an overview of mz first week in BiH as promised:

My family has a cat named ˝cat˝ aka ˝Mačka˝ which was interesting. She just had four kittens two weeks ago which are SUPER adorable and that I openly want to take home with me, but know that I can’t.

The food is AMAZING here. I’ve had spinach pitas (it’s a Slavic dish not the American dish), a delicious kiwi/banana cake, rice with beef strips, cevapi (MMMMMMMMM) and more. For Mother’s Day my sister and I made our family crepes after church and put the BiH brand of Netella and the maple syrup I brought from a St. Jacob’s farm on them. Most mornings we eat cereal made of cocoa and maple with warmed milk straight from the cows. At night we usually have dinner at 8-9; it usually consists of eggs, salami, FRESH bread (which I cannot get enough of) and cream cheese. Lunch is usuallz at 2 or 3pm and is usuallz the largest meal of the day. It´s hard to get used to only eating 3 times a day and eating late at night when I am used to smaller portions and more frequent meals at home. (My clothes are already getting tight, even with the extra physical activity that I´m doing on a regular basis.)

On Saturday I spend the day in the outskirts of town helping my family plant potatoes. I have never planted them before so it was a great experience to see the complete process. It was also a VERY good workout. My BiH parents prepared the potatoes days before: they cut old ones into fourths, trying to keep the roots intact. Then on Saturday a neighbour used a machine to make the rows for the potatoes on the large field (about 1/3 of a soccer field). We planted the potatoes, roots up, a foot apart; and then we racked the soil over the potatoes. It was a great way to bond with my family and one of the neighbours.

On Sunday my sister, neighbours and I went to church at 8am. It was a small building. The mass was very short; Ryan, who went with his BiH brothers, said it was about 35 minutes long. Apparently their old priest´s masses ran over an hour long, where as the new priest likes to keep it short & concise, which the locals appreciate. I am happy that I used to go to the Croatian church with my Baka because it allowed me to know some of the prayers on Sunday.

At the beginning of this week we, the ICVs, created a program for next week. We then created student sign up sheets for the different classes offered next week. After getting permission from the principles, we put up the two promossional posters we made earlier that day in both the Bosnian and Croatian schools.

Yesterday we met the major of BiH. We asked if he could hire someone to clean up the park across the street ASAP so that the children coming to the Centar would have a place to do sports. He was very nice and said he would try his hardest to have the park cleaned by next week. He also invited us to go with him on a private tour of the mountains and to see some deer, which I found to be a HUGE privilege.

Today (Thursday) we went to Travnik which I’ll explain in my next post.

That’s it for now,

~G.

Personal Reflection in BiH

2009-05-11T10:25:00.001-07:00

I know that I promised an update but I’ve been reflecting with my Intercordia friends (ICF) this afternoon and I want to continue.

This year I have been reflecting a lot on who I want to be and how I want my life to be. Coming into this trip I wanted to continue my journey of self-reflection and growth.

Living in a more humbling environment has solidified my desire to live a more modest life and to really focus on family time rather than monetary needs. My ICF and I have already noticed the difference in lifestyles between BiH and Canada.

Since arriving in Bosnia Herzegovina (BiH) just over a week ago, I have noticed a difference in lifestyles between people living in BiH and Canada.

I have noticed that the city is divided; there is a street that divides the two sides which runs beside the Centar. The Bosnian side & Croatian side each have their own schools, post offices and cafes. According to the locals, the people are hesitant to walk on the side of town that they do not live on, even if it’s just to play sports on the field. With that said, the synergy within the individual communities is stronger than I have ever seen in Canada. For instance, I consistently hear the neighbourhood children outside my room in the front yard or playing with my family’s kittens inside our house. As well, the neighbours are happy to help each other out. For instance, two weekends ago, a few neighbours helped us plant a field of potatoes. I have heard similar comments from the other Intercordia Volunteers in BiH. The values within the families are different as well.

In general, North Americans seem more concerned about providing monetary support for their families rather than quality, family time. Parents work long hours which prevent them from being fully present in their children’s lives. It seems, through experience thus far and from comments made by reliable sources, that people share a different mentality in BiH. For instance, my host family seems to be very close. My host mother seems to be her children’s best friend. (The parents are still stern when they have to be; they have found a happy medium.) They spend a lot of time together individually and as a group. For instance, they go on family walks and or play Uno during the evenings. Everyone helps each other out because there is a mutual respect between all parties. Personally, I enjoyed cooking crepes with my host sister for Mother’s day breakfast, and helping with the dishes because I know that my family is willingly help me without hesitation with laundry, learning the language, etc. It is nice to see parents that want to play foosball with us children at night or go rollerblading with their family on the weekends. It’s refreshing to see the children and neighbours help the parents plant potatoes, and the family welcome guests to dinner on the whim. There are many times that I have noticed an absence in these values from numerous families in Canada.

It is nice to see a community put emphasis on the importance of family, friends, and helping within the neighbourhood. All in all, I feel so blessed to be apart of such a great community!

With that said I must go home.

Laka Noč!

~G.

First week in BiH

2009-05-10T10:24:00.000-07:00

I don’t even know where to begin! The experience thus far has already been a roller coaster ride, but one I would never take back!

The plane ride was good. My Baka, mom and dad came to the airport with me where I met Chelsea (another volunteer going to BiH) and an Intercordia representative. The last couple of days before leaving Canada were jam packed with getting preparations done. Thus, I did not have time to worry about the unknown. However, it really hit me that I was leaving familiar faces and heading across the pond for a WHOLE SUMMER when I was saying goodbye to my Canadian family.

The plane ride was excellent. It was my first time going on a plane in a few years so it was a great treat to be able to get REALLY good food and unlimited movie access! In Munich Chels and I met the rest of the Intercordia volunteers heading to BiH: Jillian, Ryan and Bridgette. Joe from Intercordia and Selma from the Centar met us at the Sarajevo airport. Before leaving the airport we sat at our first cafe and conversed for a short while. Then we headed to Gornji Vakuf- Uskoplji.

The car ride was LONG but the landscape was like nothing I have ever seen! We were surrounded by mountains and a mixture of buildings ranging from new, colourful, stecko homes with red rooftops to run down, vacant buildings. That experience alone was indescribable. Vacationing and living in North America never allowed me to be exposed to anything like what I saw; it was unforgettable.

The town is small. I live a two minute walk from the Centar on the Croatian side. Walking from one side of the town to the other side takes barely any time and we were told by the Teen Group (who will be assisting us during the summer and translating for us) that there are about 10,000 people in town.

The past few days have been SO eventful. It honestly feels like midterm time in university; there’s so much I want to do but not enough time.

I’m not very good at the language which was a huge struggle for me during my first couple of days here. I felt inadequate and felt like I should be more fluent. However, the people have been very encouraging and are very kind. Also, Ryan, who has dealt with language barriers in the past, has put me at ease today by describing his experience to myself and the rest of the volunteers. He explained that learning the language is like a snowball where initially it will seem like we cannot retain any words but after a while we’ll start picking up things very fast.

It has been hard because I was not able to bring a dictionary or adequate workbook. However, conversing with the children and my family on a daily basis and reading my family’s workbook has helped.

Initally I did not feel 100% comfortable with rest of the volunteers. I just did not feel like we clicked 100%. However, while writing in my journal I was reflecting on what I want to get out of my time in BiH. Although it would be nice to have a lasting friendship with my peers, I am here for the children, to learn the language and the history of the country and grow as a person. At that moment I felt at ease and I was able to refocus. (NOTE: I am now feeling a lot closer with the rest of the Intercordia volunteers; our bonding sessions, both individually and as a group, have really helped.)

My host family and the neighbourhood children, or my ˝entourage˝ as Chelsea said today, as well as encouraging e-mails from my family and friends back home have helped me with the transition.

I am SO grateful for my host family. I am finally able to experience life in a large family. I have two parents, a sestra (sister) & three brata (brothers). Since the very beginning they have welcomed me with open arms. Their values are very inspiring. They are a very tight knit family who value family time and relationships between each other. Moreover, they are very open to visitors and always have their doors open to guests. It is a nice change to always have neighbours at the house.

It is just after eight o’clock in BiH so I must wrap up this blog because I’m sure dinner will be served shortly, and it is starting to get dark outside.

In my next blog I will be discussing the family kittens/cat that I want to take home with me, the amazing Hrvaski food, family conversations/similarities, yesterday’s four-hour potato planting session with my family, church & cafe experiences, the locals, plans for our youth program, and more.

I hope all is well with my family and friends. Safe travels everyone!

~G.

TWC: Until Next Time...

2009-04-28T06:39:00.000-07:00

The past few days have been bitter-sweet. I was finally able to complete my volunteer hours, but more importantly I was finally able to spend a few days in Kitchener & in WTC, which was very enjoyable.

Last Thursday I took part in my last "Speak English Cafe" for the term. It was nice to see familiar faces and catch up with them, and to meet people I would have never have had the opportunity to meet if it weren't for BB. I spoke with my friend from the Middle East, Krista's friend, and a few others. It was great to find out what they've been up to, their future plans, and get some closure. During SEC, we had to answer questions that related to Earth Day (which was on Wed). I always love hearing about other people's experiences. My favourite part of the night was learning about ways different parts of the world conserve. For instance, in Columbia and China, among other places, people are only allowed to drive every other day. Thus, half of the people (organized via licence plates) drives one day while the other half drive the next day. If they are caught driving on the wrong day they get a pricey fine. We also discussed a need for better transportation systems in KW and other large cities like a subway system or cable cars. We also discussed how some countries conserve energy during the extreme seasons: they allow their employees to dress season appropriate and keep their AC/heat to a minimum. For instance, in the summer employees are allowed to wear shorts and short-sleeve shirts, and the AC will only turn on when the temperature reaches a certain point. If only Canada could jump on some of these bandwagons...

After hearing raving reviews from Kate- another BB student- about baking in the kitchen at TWC, I was finally able to volunteer there yesterday. Although it was stifling hot in there, I enjoyed my volunteering experience tremendously. I loved the people there and I was allowed to bake and test out brownies, double chocolate cookies, carrot cake, and coconut balls. It was heaven! Then I helped the staff clean the place, which reminded me of my jobs at an outdoor education camp during my second year of university and a restaurant in high school. The people there were very kind and very appreciative of my hard work which was nice. One person said she was sad that it was my first and last day, while another joked, "See you tomorrow?!!" Unfortunately I won't be back today because I'm leaving KW, but I definitely plan on coming back to the kitchen and the SEC!

Before leaving TWC I noticed an elderly man front SEC drinking coffee by myself in the Cafe, and I decided to chat with him; it was very nice.

Finally, as I made my way to my bus, I noticed representatives promoting Greenpeace on the sidewalk and decided to chat with them. After having an in-depth conversation about conservation initiatives and Tar Sands, I decided to sign up and received a book, which I'm very excited to read in BiH.

As the days go by I am falling more in love with KW. The people are always so helpful and the atmosphere is great. Moreover, I am so happy to have had the opportunity to get involved within the community; it has definitely humbled and grounded me. I can't wait to help out when I return to Canada.

Future Plans / Passport

2009-04-22T12:34:00.000-07:00

A week ago my friend and I were discussing future involvement opportunities within the University. After more than a year on SJ Union, we've decided to embark on new experiences. The only question left was what should we do? Right away I thought of creating a conference. Initially I wanted to create a fun, leadership conference, similar to the ones I participated in during high school, i.e., HOBY, MYAC, OSSA, and GO. However, after conversing with one of my close friends from WL and my BB professor, I have started to refocus creating a conference that will allow students to become aware of ways they can become involved in the local community and on campus. Moreover, with the approval of my BB professor, I am fairly certain this conference will be a component of my final BB project. I know that it will be A LOT of work, but I know it will be worth it. I've wanted to co-create an initiative-based project since grade 11 when I co-founded a volunteer club. This will definitely be an outside the box project and it will be a great way to end BB and my university experience.

Side Note: I JUST received notice that my passport has arrived! :D:D Now I need my tickets! (One of the IC students going to BiH has just received his today.) It feels so surreal that in less than 2 weeks I will be in BiH. Although I'm already half packed (I got excited a week ago), I have a lot more prepping to do.

Thank You for Your Prayers

2009-04-11T00:01:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to say a quick thank-you to everyone who kept me in their prayers. My documents are all in order for my travels. :D

Hvala,

~G.

BB/Intercordia Meet-and-Greet

2009-04-10T23:35:00.000-07:00

Earlier on in the week, prospective BB students had a chance to meet Alumni and this years BB students. Before attending, I sent an informal invitation to all my University friends who are still going to be in UW next year. I was happy to see 2 of the 20 people at the meeting, and 3 others expressing an interest in the BB program. The meet-and-greet, in my eyes, was a success. After Elyse, Lisa & Elyse (people working for BB/Intercordia/the University) presented, students previously and presently enrolled in the program had the chance to speak to the prospective students about their BB experience. After a Q&A period and refreshments, I was able to speak one-on-one with Sarah, an Alumnus who went to BiH. A lot of my last-minute questions were answered, which I then relayed to the rest of my BiH group via facebook. After conversing with/visiting the blogs of 5 prior BB/Intercordia students who went to BiH, I feel A LOT more prepared for BiH.

Sretan Uskrs!! (Happy Easter)

2009-04-10T23:31:00.001-07:00

2006

My New Adventure Begins in Less than a Month!

2009-04-10T23:13:00.000-07:00

With less than a month to go, I have finally received my ticket confirmation from Intercordia! Moreover, we (myself & the 4 other Intercordia students going to BiH this summer) have started receiving e-mails from Mediha- a worker at the Youth Center- which is quite exciting.

It feels so surreal and yet finalized. My mind is full of lists, i.e., packing lists, last minute questions to ask Alumni, things I need to accomplish before departing from Waterloo and Canada. It's crazy to think that in 23 days I will be out of North America and immersed into a different culture. In less than a month I will be beginning my informal ethnographic journey- observing and interacting with people from a different culture for a long duration in order to learn from them.

Until Next Time...

2009-04-05T14:34:00.000-07:00

End of the Year Party at Joanne's House - BB 2008-9

It was the perfect ending to an amazing phase in my life/ two terms. There were lots laughs, some tears, embraces, A LOT of photos and sharing of memories. One of my favourite/emotional moments of the night was the web of friendship & will wishes. (I initally learned about this activity at a conference 5 years ago; I still have the string/memory).

Web of Friendship & Well Wishing:

We created a circle. Lisa, our Intercordia "mom", held a ball of yarn. She explained that we had to hold on the end of the yarn and then throw the rest of it to someone in the circle. Before or after throwing it we had to express a wish we had for the person. This wish had to relate to their overseas journey/placement, i.e., I hope that your placement lives up to your expectations and that you come home safely. This continued until everyone had a piece of yarn and we have formed a web. Then one by one we had to say a "well wish" for the entire group, and then cut one piece of the web. This occurred in a clockwise motion until everyone had spoken and we each had part of the web. Our yarn ties us all together. In midst of our saddest, loneliest or dark days we call look upon our wrist to the bracelets we've made, and remember that across the oceans and or the fields there are people that can relate, and that love us for who were really are.

This experience had helped me gain 13 friends. People that love me for ME. They see through the surface and can see deep into my soul. They know my weaknesses and still love me, maybe even more now that they have had the chance to know me in my entirety. I will always cherish these past few months. I will cherish the moments we've had and how we've helped each other heal, grow, and preserver.

Thanks to my BB family. I wish you all the best on your placements. Make sure to use your 5 senses and your instincts. I look forwards to seeing you all at reintegration in August. :D

~Georgie

Warm Fuzzies

Grammys Collaboration 2007

2009-04-05T14:26:00.001-07:00

This song will always remind me of Union and BB. I loved sitting in the Union office this term, putting this collaboration on YouTube and writing in my blog. It always relaxed me and helped me focused. The lyrics are a bit sad on two of the songs but I love these artists and listen to them on a daily basis. Matt has gotten me addicted to listening to Jason Mraz as well!

Anyways, enjoy!

Dragon, Princess & Wizard Named Bob

2009-04-03T03:16:00.000-07:00

The other day while cleaning my room I came across a story one of my students wrote and gave to me as a gift.

For 7 of the past 8 years I have worked at my uncles' educational summer camp. Last year I was a teacher for the 2nd time; I taught grade 6s. Those who have worked with me at the camp know all about Chris. He was a VERY gifted, very smart child, but he was also VERY disruptive to the rest of the class and a bit of a character. To minimize his tendencies to disrupt the class, my T.A. and I would allow him to write grade appropriate, short stories. Near the end of the summer he even presented to the class. Although he wants to become a marine biologist, I encouraged him to continue to write because he has a true gift. One day I asked him to write me a story, and he did. The following is a copy of his story about a dragon, a princess and a wizard named Bob.

Although I'm going to miss the kids and my coworkers immensely, Chris' story will always be a fond memory of the camp. It reminds me of the importance of capturing memories so I can cherish them for years to come. On a more practical note, the story reminded me of all the innovative activities I have done with children over the past 8 years in my numerous teaching positions and at my leadership conferences. During the weeks leading up to my departure, I will be going through my activities, workbooks and arts & craft supplies, including my sticker collection, to come up with ideas for interactive activities that my group and I can potentially do at the center. I am also excited to converse with my fellow BiH Intercordia friends about the types of supplies we can take to Bosnia.

Moreover, as I am starting to shop for supplies, I am getting excited and nervous about the trip. Today my mom and I bought a bunch of stuff at Costco. My favourite items, like always, were books. We bought two "Where's Waldo books" and a VERY thick "Search & Find" book. In the latter, there are nouns such as "turtle" and "fish". The kids have to find the objects in the scene (similar to "Where's Waldo"). I think this book could be used for a great interactive learning activity for the students at the center. We could teach the students the nouns during the week (writing the English word beside the Croatian word on the blackboard). Then at the end of the week we could give them photocopied sheets of the activity to test their memory in a fun way.

I'm also going to try and post some activities I have learned from past jobs/conferences that can be played during our placements. Most of them require little if any equipment, and some can be done in confined areas.

Oh the excitement of camp/teaching... :D

Outside my classroom on the last day of camp (We had a Masquerade party)

The students brainstorming ideas for our "Halloween in July" Day

Drawing Strength from St. Thersa of Avila

2009-04-02T22:58:00.000-07:00

Tonight my dear friend, Holly, sent me an e-mail with a "pretty powerful" prayer to pray before going to the passport office.

I think it is a great quote for my BB friends to remember during their placements abroad:

Let nothing trouble you.
let nothing frighten you.
all is fleeting, God alone is unchanging.
patience obtains everything.
who posses God wants nothing, for God alone suffices.
Amen.

-Prayer of St. Theresa of Avila

Warm Fuzzies

2009-04-02T22:17:00.000-07:00

As the school year draws to an end, I'm getting very sentimental, reminiscent and a tad sad. Watching the finale of The Real World Brooklyn, like most RW finales, has increased my emotions. I have created strong bonds with a few groups of individuals in my life. The end of the term signifies the end of one chapter and the beginning of my next one. I am sad that this indicates the end of a time in my life where I was blessed to have met so many supportive people through residence, work, Union & BB. With that said, I know that our lives with intertwine and that I've truly made some life-long friends. As I am writing down the remaining warm fuzzies to people from Union and BB, a song comes to mind: "Time of Your Life" by Green Day. Enjoy!

Warm Fuzzies: They were first introduced to me in high school when I used to be involved in numerous youth conferences. Near the end of the conferences, once everyone had gotten to know each other, time was put aside for each of us to write down nice thoughts about each person in a group. The thoughts are then collected to create a booklet of “warm fuzzies” for each of us. They had to be positive, non-physical attributes that we admired about the individual. They could be anonymous or signed comments. Ultimately, it was an accumulation of affirmations from our peers that we can look upon in the future. They created a positive and lasting impression on our experience in the conference and with our group members. Warm Fuzzies was one key element in the conferences that I will always remember. I felt that it was an important booklet for BB students to have during their next chapter: volunteering abroad. Whether we’re home sick, or sad, it will be something that we can hopefully draw strength from. I hope that this becomes a tradition for future BB/Intercordia Canada students.

Moreover, through watching The Real World Brooklyn I have discovered a way to enhance this item. In TRWB, Ryan, one of the housemates, was deployed to Iraq. His housemates wantedto motivate him to continue making plans to pursue his dreams once he was home from Iraq. Thus, they put “warm fuzzies” in a journal that he could take with him on his journey. He could read their warm fuzzies for motivation and comfort. As well, he was encouraged to use the journal to brainstorm him “bucket list” for when he comes back home.

I think it would be beneficial for future students in the program to use the Intercordia booklets as warm fuzzies/ journals for their overseas placements. Here is the link to TRWB episode. Note: it is the 8th part in the 12th episode (it starts mid-way through the clip). Moreover, to make the booklet more memorable and artistic, students can collage and laminate (or put sealing glue) on the cover of the booklet. (My friend/BB pear, Katie, gave me that idea).

http://www.mtv.ca/tvshows/realworld-brooklyn/video_content.jhtml?id=1607779

Awards Night Pictures March 2009

2nd Presentation: BiH's History, Social & Economic Inplications of 90s War, Government, Placement & Highlights from Alumni trips (06)

2009-03-31T20:27:00.000-07:00

Bosnia Herzegovina Pp #2

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Last week I presented for the second time. I focused on the history of BiH (including the war in 1992-5), the implications of the Bosnian war and the Omladinsky Centar that was built post-war in an effort to create harmony via the youth. I also included some pictures of Gornji-Vakuf, surrounding cities in BiH & cities in Croatia which Alumni visited on their time off during their placements. Unlike the first presentation, my professor timed us and cut us off at the 10 minute mark. Two years ago when I was in "Speech Communication" I would have panicked when seeing the "2 min" or "20 second" sign; however, surprisingly enough I found myself rolling with the punches, summing up my key points and finish in the nick of time. (Mind you I had practiced my presentation at least 6 times before presenting to the class and had picked up some tricks from Matt's presentation, which I will explain below.)
It was interesting to see how my peers reacted under pressure. Some people where able to adapt to the situation while others struggled. I also loved analyzing my peer's PowerPoint slides and recall my IBT high school years when we learned about creating an effective slide, i.e., it should have X amount of words per slide, you should expand on the points in your verbal presentation and the slides need to be relevant (not common knowledge). However, I learned a new technique from Matt's presentation, which I then emulated in mine.
Since we had time restrictions, he put a little more than the average amount of information on his slides. He gave the audience a disclaimer that he would not have time to go over all the points. Thus, if they felt inclined they could read the slide for more thorough information. If not, they could listen while he verbally communicating the key points. This became increasingly useful when Joanne flashed the "2 minute" sign in front of me. Thanks Matt. :D

~G.

Hosting my 1st Solo Fundraiser: What a Success!

2009-03-30T20:02:00.000-07:00

I don't even know where to begin...

After months of preparation, weekly visits home to get donated auction/door prize items and promote my event, the day had finally arrived, and I still had SO much to do! I had to get last minute auction prizes, organize the auction prizes and my presentation, get ready, find out when my friend, Jen, was coming to help out, greet early guests, try to figure out the projector for my presentation and serve customers at the bar. It was a very stressful beginning. I signed with relief when I saw Jen come in the doors. Right away I put her to work (don't worry she was getting a free meal/entertainment/ "life lesson from the regulars" out of it). She did a great job helping set up the auction and sell the products; thanks Jen. She also amused my regular customers. My mom was also a TREMENDOUS help. She blew my expectations out of the park! She did everything from arguing to get a float with a local Superstore manager, to helping manage the auction, from bussing table to helping me in the bar. Us Sesek ladies definitely have hard work ethics! I so proud of you mom!! (Jen and Mom: you two ladies were definitely super stars!)

For me, the night went so quickly. I was all over the place. I was working the bar, serving and bussing the band and their table, presenting, mingling with my formal customers/friends, etc. I definitely kept busy.

Those in my BB class know that I like to be ultra prepared for my presentations. Thus, when I was left "winging it", I was a bit nervous. It went over alright but do to nerves I said "um" quite a bit and left out some interesting facts. What can I say, I'm not the greatest impromptu speaker, however, I think I did alright considering I didn't have a script at all.

After my presentation I go some exciting news! My former customer and friend, John D., who works with the Mayor of Georgetown, presented an award on behalf of the Mayor wishing me all the best on my journey to BiH. Afterwards he added that they have something waiting for me when I return. "Something waiting for me when I return"?? My curiosity is running wild with that comment. What could it be? I guess I'll have to practice being patient.

The rest of the night was a blast. The dinner was done, my grandma and her boyfriend were dancing up a storm while the band was playing. I even danced with some on my old customers and got to converse with my favourite customers and co-worker while cleaning up.

The silent auction went well. I sold almost all of the items. I am SO grateful for the outpour of support I have received from local businesses, and friends. The items were amazing! I made an outstanding amount during my fundraising event, and in the end it was great to see family and friends. All in all it was a huge success. Moreover, I am THRILLED to announce that the fundraiser, along with my uncle's generous contribution, has helped me complete the fundraising portion of my program. All $2000 has been raised!!! :D

Thank you to all who helped make the event successful, and thank you to everyone who came out to support me.

~G.

Ppp For Fundraiser

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The lost document... faith and perseverance

2009-03-30T19:12:00.000-07:00

"all the pain and fear... maybe going through that is what keeps us going forward"
- Grey's Anatomy 5.19

Recently I lost something very important to me; a crucial document that could alter my path in life. I was devastated. Since then I have had anxiety on a regular basis, thinking of the "what ifs" and worrying about the effect it would have on my dreams, and future in general.

Looking back I think that it has helped me in many ways. It has helped remind me of its importance and necessity. It has also helped me realise my core group of supporters and rocks. Through this experience I have leaned on a few friends and family members, of whom I thank. I have also gained friendships and respect for others. My professor and Intercordia superiors have been very helpful and reassuring, always telling me to "have faith". Although I was very greatful that they were so supportive, I just couldn't stay positive. That was until I confided in my grandmother, my Baka.

One day I called her fairly upset and she immediately put me at ease. She didn't make excuses for me, but in a non condescending way she reminded me that I needed to be more careful. Then she added that accidents happen and that I NEED to learn from this mistake. She also told me an enlightening story about her grandmother who lost a very important key. Her grandmother was distraught and was panicking. My baka simply told her to pray to St. Anthony and eventually he would help open their eyes within three days. After three days my baka went outside looking for the key and sure enough St. Anthony helped her find it. She also recalled a time when she had lost some important documents. Again she immediately started praying to St. Anthony. Within the day, my uncle found the documents.

At the end of my fundraising event, while embracing me before leaving, my baka whispered, "did you find it?" to which I replied, "no" :( Many would lose faith but not my baka. She said that she would continue to pray.

Today I became anxious and unable to focus like usual. I checked my e-mail; I had received an e-mail I was dreading from my professor regarding my document. Immediately I called my baka and deda. Like always, they remained calm and helped me keep focused. My deda, along with my dear friend Holly an hour before, had convinced me that I would need to take action and speak with my parents. They made me realise that I could not put it off any longer; I would have to confide in them.

The phone call to my parents turned out much better than I anticipated. Like usual, my dad was calm and collected, something he's great at when ever I seem to be nervous or worried about something. He gave me great advice and helped me formulate a game plan.

Consequently, after 2-3 weeks, my anxiety over the whole situation is finally decreasing. I am less worried and more focused.

Looking back, my baka was right. I may not have found my documents within 3-4 days but I my eyes were opened. I was able to get up to courage to speak to all the core people I needed to speak with to get the ball rolling.

One thing is for sure, this process has definitely made me value Beyond Borders significantly more. It has made me appreciate and respect Joanne, Lisa and Mary Bee to a high degree. It has also allowed me to bond with my family and friends, and made me cognitive of my goals in life. I now know for complete certainty that I want to get an internship with a NGO/NPO before attending teacher's college and I need to make sure that I do everything in my power to ensure that that dream is accomplished. I need to care less about frivolous things and more about my goals. This pain and fear of losing another dream has definitely pushed me towards my dreams.

Now I just need to have faith that my dreams are meant to be. Faith and perseverance, those two key words are what I need to have.

Volunteer Award!

2009-03-23T12:43:00.000-07:00

Last Monday I had a nice and unexpected surprise waiting for me in the grade 2 portable that the local elementary school I volunteer at biweekly. I had an award and invitation to an event honouring "outstanding volunteers".

It's crazy to think that I received an award for doing something that I LOVE SO much. Mondays and Wednesdays when I am able to volunteer at Keatsway are BY FAR the highlights of my week. A smile always formulates with I go to my placement. I adore the grade 2 students. Aspiring teachers will understand the joy I get out of a child finally understanding a concept or improving in their academic and or behavioural skills. Like my dear friends and soon to be teachers, I also love being called by my last name, "Ms. George".

The other week I was walking to school and I could hear a child tell his mother, "I think I know that girl." The mother replying, "Keep walking!" The child said, "I do know that lady, it's Ms. George, HI MS. GEORGE!!!” To this I responded, "Hi!" while waving from across the street. In the distance I could hear the child saying in a proud voice, "I told you I knew her!" A smile plastered onto my face for the rest of my journey to campus.

I have always wanted to be a teacher. When I was young I used to give my Baka English lessons, and from elementary school to middle school I would always play "teacher" with my best friend, Ashley. Since then I have mentored and tutored numerous children and have been a T.A./ teacher at my uncle's educational camps for 5years. With that said, it is great to be able to volunteering in a classroom all year long.

Moreover, I will forever be grateful that my mentor, Jason, asked me to assist in his class. He is one of the best mentors I have ever worked with (and I've worked with a lot). I learn something new almost every day I volunteer. He has taught me numerous, vital teaching skills such as being completely honest with the students, involving the parents in fun, interactive learning activities, having honest and open communication with the parents, incorporating movies and personal knowledge on topics that the students learn, and to stick up for yourself when it comes to the school politics and your beliefs. Unlike many teachers, from the beginning he has allowed me to take a major role in the classroom. I regularly work one-on-one with the students, facilitating activities that test their cognitive knowledge. I have also been able to write a lesson plan and rubric, and run an art activity that evaluated the students' knowledge on the water cycle. Moreover, he has taught me a huge, valuable lesson.

Since joining BB, I became interested in NGOs/NPOs. For months I have been debating whether to continue taking steps towards applying for teacher's college next fall or do a Masters/work for an NGO beforehand before teaching.

After observing Jason’s lessons and conversing about politics, development issues, and education after class, I have realised that his additional knowledge from person experience, running a company, owning a farm, and a desire to continuously expand his knowledge, has given him a competitive advantage over teachers who directly enter the school board after graduating from post secondary education and teacher's college.

I will never forget when one of the grade 2's fathers expressed his gratitude towards Jason. He said that his children learned more in his class than from any other teacher because he teaches the students more than what is in the textbook. For instance, he uses personal anecdotes, activities, and plays to help engage the kids. That afternoon I decided that I wanted to follow suit. I want to be able to make a large impact on children's lives.

Thus, I believe that the Beyond Borders experience and future internships with NGOs/NPOs will diversify my knowledge and understanding of the multi facet society people live in. I hope my worldly experiences will help enhance my future students' educational experience.

Strength?

2009-03-21T21:44:00.000-07:00

Within the past two days, two people have called me strong. This is very ironic to me because I don't feel strong at all. Sure I put on a happy face and try not to wear my heart on my sleeve, but I don't feel like enduring heartache and hardships makes me a strong person. I know that I have grown and have gain self discovery over the past little while, but haven't we all in our own way? I am glad to be able to share my stories, my struggles, and my attempts to overcome my hurdles. But I think that we are all here to become agents to someone or some people. I know that during my darkest moments, I needed the guidance and motivation of others. I feel honored to be able to share my thoughts and experiences with others and to receive such welcoming and positive feedback. However, I don't feel like "strength" can really discribe an emotion person that I am. With that said, I would like to thank Holly, John, Jessica, and Dan. Moreover, I feel like these seminars and the life stories always make me feel closer to the group and are a HUGE asset to the program.

Intercordia Seminar # 3 with King's!!! :D

2009-03-21T16:11:00.000-07:00

Today we had our Intercordia Canada seminar in Kitch.. It was bittersweet. I had been excited to see the King's students for weeks. It was definitely nice to see Dan, Brit, and Chelsea again. During the seminar a L'Arche resident, Bill, came in to speak about his life. He made us laugh with his cute jokes, infectious laughter, and great stories. Lisa's husband helped Bill explain his life. We also learned a new, fun spin off version of volleyball game I used to play during lunch in high school. We talked about appropriate times to contact IPP/ICC. Chelsea and I found out from Lisa that we will be getting VERY basic language training when we first arrive in BiH. Specific details about our travel plans and required documentations were also presented to us.

Two people I lived with in first year (Wanda and Kevin) spoke during the seminar about their experiences in BiH and Ukraine in 2007. It was an AMAZING opportunity to pick Wanda's brain (BiH Alumni). For instance, I found out that only 4% of the land in BiH has landmines, which was a tad comforting. I also found out that the Croatian side has received more financial aid to rebuild their side after the war. Wanda also explained the differences between N.American lifestyles and Bosnian/Croatian lifestyles. She explained that people are much more relaxed in BiH. Since a lot of people do not work (the employed work in cafes or in construction) their days are very leisurely. She told us to be prepare to be bored. I have heard this comment a lot from other Alumni and have worried; I have been brought up in a family that thrives on being busy. The funny thing is that last year my second cousins from Croatia came to visit us in Canada. They were foreigners like I will be this summer. Their lifestyle was very similar to what the Alumni had explained; they took their time getting ready, making sure that they look very presentable. They definitely suffered from culture shock when visiting us in Canada. Most of the days they spend here were jammed packed with places to go and people to see. My poor extended family was exhausted half the time and probably needed another holiday once they returned to Croatia. It was interesting to hear that my 2nd cousins aren't the only ones with an opposing lifestyle. It's weird to think that I will have to adjust to their lifestyle like they had to adjust to ours. (I like to plan out my days and make them as eventful as possible, although I also like having my down time. It will be interesting to see how I will react to on-the-fly programming, potentially having numerous uneventful days in a row, and reintegrate back into a time crunching life in Canada.)

It was also interesting to hear that the language barrier in host countries caused people to interact with each other in a more simplistic way. Instead of talking about TV and movies, Alumni would play something with the indigenous people. The bonds were different. I've always wanted to immerse myself head-first into a new culture/foreigh language. To have to learn the basics. I know that it will be extremely frustrating at times because I will feel excluded from a lot of conversations. At the same time I'm excited at the prospect of learning the language and being about to speak to my grandparents when I come back to Canada, even if it's only a few phrases. I know that my Baka and Deda will be thrilled too!

Speaking one-on-one with Wanda and viewing her photos with Chelsea was SO useful. I found out that the U.S. volunteers bring an abundant amount of arts & craft supplies; one picture showed the kids hitting each other (in a playful way) with blow-up bowling pins that were as big as they are. I'm very excited to help facilitate their programs. Since discovering that we will be teaching English I have wondered about the materials I should bring. I had been debating whether to buy English work books (i.e., the ones found in Costco). Wanda gave us some really helpful advice: we should bring phrase books and teach them English phrases because it will be more useful than learning random words. I never thought of that. It was great insight.

Since volunteering at Speak English Cafe, I have wondered if Bosnia will have a similar program (AKA informal programs to improve our comprehension of the Bosnian language by facilitating activities that allow us to practice our Bosnian with patient people in the host country). Wanda explained that some of the permanent staff at the centre would love it if we took the initiative to start a similar program to SEC. This sparked some excitement in me. I would LOVE to start something up. We'll see. *Crossing Fingers!*
Moreover, I found out more about the relationships Bosnians and Croatians have. It was very informative and helped put me at easy. :D

One thing that was difficult was sharing my life story with most of the BB students and the King's students. I showed John my unedited (LONG) version. He definitely put me at ease by thanking me for sharing my story with him and letting me know that it would be a great thing to share with the group to give people more insight on where I come from and give a different perspective on my life. Jessica V. was very sweet by coming over to sit near me afterwards to show her support. Thank you Jess for the thought of a hug: D Dan was also very kind afterwards. Although it was very hard sharing my life story and I felt a bit uncomfortable with people afterwards, it was good to express myself without the worry of being judged. It was nice to finally show that there's more to me than what lies on the surface. I LOVE hearing other people's stories. I felt so privileged to be trusted with their personal struggles and achievements. It helps me understand their character and what got them to the place they are now at in their lives.

Moreover, I appreciated the talk I had with Lisa and MaryB. They helped put me at ease about an issue I was having so thank you to them.
Lastly, it was great hanging out with Chelsea.

Although logistics are putting a lot of stress on me, I am becoming excited at the prospect that in less than 2 months this opportunity of a lifetime will begin! My countdown to the airport party with Chels, Ryan and Jillian will commence very soon! :D

Cloud Nine! I'm in the paper!!!!

2009-03-20T15:51:00.000-07:00

After A LOT of work, I got my story into the local paper!! I'm ecstatic!!! I hope that this will create some buzz and more people will buy tickets to my event!

*Crossing Fingers*

Here's the article: http://www.independentfreepress.com/news/article/66657

Opening Pandora's Box

2009-03-18T17:46:00.000-07:00

The other day an uncomfortable situation arouse. As a result, I decided to take some time off school work today and prepare for my personal story that I have to present during my Intercordia Canada seminar this Saturday. (The personal story must consist of 3 hardships and 3 achievements in my life thus far.) The combination of the two was very hard emotionally. It was like opening Pandora’s box. With that said, it was almost therapeutic. I saw some links between my uncomfortable situation and past hardships. I also saw how these hardships led to some amazing transformations in my life.

Water Shortage and Population Crisis

2009-03-16T04:04:00.000-07:00

Two reoccurring, interrelated topics that I have come across are the water shortage and population crisis. It started a few months ago with conversations I had with one of my former Zio's customer Bob W. and my mentor Jason R., then two weeks ago when my friend, Lauren, who went to a conference on Water Supplies in Toronto, then during my BB class meeting in TWC, and then in a Globe and Mail (GAM)(http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20090311.wwater0312/BNStory/International/home)article & Population International Growth (PIG)article(http://www.populationaction.org/Publications/Reports/Mapping_the_Future_of_World_Population/Summary.shtml).
The overall concern is that the population is growing too rapidly and the result will be a shortage of water, although there are other factors involved. Consequently, there will be world conflicts over the scarce water supply. Specifically the GAM states that the world population is estimated to grow by 80 million people per year and the UN (in the PIG article) estimates that there will be approx. 7.5 billion - 8.3 billion people worldwide by 2025. This takes into account the predicted population decline in parts of the world, such as Eastern Europe (which is already experiencing decreases), sub-Saharan Africa and South America. It also considers the current, rapid population growth in northern South Asia and eastern Asia. These states take into account the worldwide increase of life expectancy. Moreover, the statistics are the lower-median estimates for the population grown. (Refer to the PIG website for charts projecting this information). The GAM sheds some hard truths about affects the interrelated topics will have on the world. The World Water Development Report notes that it is "[predicted] that by 2030, nearly half of the world's population will be living in areas of high water stress." Thus, new conflict resolution strategies MUST be designed to control global tensions that will arise. (Some of the countries that will be significantly affected are "Israel and the occupied Palestinian territories, Haiti, Sri Lanka and Colombia". As well, people living on the coast and in urban areas will be greatly affected. Interestingly, a water shortage might also have a negative effect on the economy in "in parts of China, India and Indonesia, and commercial centers in Australia and the western United States". These shortages are linked back to the population and urban growth. An additional cause of the water shortage is agricultural uses. According to the GAM article, 70% of water use by people is linked to raising crops and growing livestock. This is a partial result of our current lifestyle diets that require us to eat a lot of meat, eggs and dairy products. Besides an increase in potential, global conflicts, the water shortage will create more "climate-change refugees"- people displaced due to climate change- and an increase of world disease since ~10% of diseases come from unsanitary water.

This summary is NOT meant to scare you, overwhelm you, or make you pessimistic. I just ask that you merely use this as a learning tool, and that the article will help you become a more aware global citizen. I hope that my BB classmates will reflect on this post and perhaps come up with questions they can pose/ask locals during their placements. From there, I hope that they will be able voice their findings to myself and their blog followers so that we can all increase our knowledge on these topics.

Some additional information and thoughts:

http://www.overpopulation.org/solutions.html brings up some interesting ideas and facts. First of all, it compares the finite resource crisis with sharing a pie: an increasing amount of consumers will put limits on the amount of pie (resources) each person can have. The problem, besides overpopulation, is overconsumption and exploitation. This reminds me of The Pedagody of the Opressed. The developed countries consume/produce an exponential and unnecessary amount of water/emission, while developed countries suffer the most. The moral of the story is that we need to become more efficient when using these resources. This is something that we MUST do as individuals and encourage corporations and our society to do. As discussed during our recent BB class in TWC these goals can be achieved by changing our own live style, i.e., taking alternative trasportation, turning off the water while brushing our teeth, taking shorter and or less frequent showers, unpluging appliances between uses, pouring less chemicals and food down our sinks, etc. By changing our habits, we can lead by example. We can start to encourage others. This can either be done vocally or by simply and silently living our lives. Remember that actions speak louder than words. For those closeted activists, you can attempt to write articles in local newspapers, start facebook groups, or talk to local organizations, i.e., oncampus environmental groups or faculties, churches, schools. My mentor at the school I'm volunteering initiated/founded a composting program last year. Now there are composts in every class in the school. Just like creating new clubs, environmental and or social issues and initiatives can be brought up and acted upon. You just been a little support, a lot of confident, perseverance and "passion" (refering to our last BB meeting at TWC). (Personal or secondary connections also help.) I hope that this has been informative, if not a tad inspirational.

~Georgie

If Everyone Cared

2009-03-16T03:01:00.000-07:00

After reading Matt's most recent blog entry, I was inspired to share my favourite music video. I think that the video is very inspirational. It compliments Joanne's views that sometimes the things that are the most difficult can end up being the most valuable/rewarding. We might have barriers but "We Can" break through them. It's all about "resilience", adaptation, mitigation, perseverance, and determination! ... I hope the video inspires you...

The Power of A HUG!

2009-03-16T02:20:00.000-07:00

Reading a fellow BB classmate's blog, Struggling, made me reflect on the magic of a hug. I am a HUGE advocator for doing "the small stuff". For instance, if gives me great joy to motivate/listen to friends in need, make arts & crafts for people, say "thank you" to bus drivers, etc. Like many, I also love receiving the small things such as words of encouragemnt and pep-talks. I'm ever so grateful to my friends who, without a second though, led me money for a cab home, offer me a ride or a wake up call (*cough JK, Erin, Kate, Jen, and countless others*). Moreover, I believe in the magic of a hug. The other day I was struggling with some personal issues. I was trying to put on a strong, happy face for my friends because I was going out to an event with them, but they knew something was wrong. Long story short, I confided in a dear friend of mine, Wei-, who immediately threw her arms around me and embraced me in a huge huge. That was all I needed. It's like a kid getting a lollipop when at the doctors; it instantly made me feel better and made me value our friendship even more. The moral of the story is that, like my previous blog, I just want to remind everyone to value the small stuff and take a few minutes out of your day to try and do acts of kindness for others. You'd be suprised at how a small thing like holding the door for someone, saying "thank you" or spending a few minutes to ask someone "How are you doing" and REALLY mean it can really help brighten up their day and yours as well.

First Mail!!!

2009-03-15T17:18:00.000-07:00

A few times a week I check my mail box. It reminds me of my first two years in residence. The anticipation of whether I would FINALLY recieve a personal letter, or at least something other than my monthly Rogers bill. Well Friday we my LUCKY day! A smile stretched from one side of my face to the other. Excitement filled me. A letter! From a donor! Who could it be?!
It reminded me of my placement three years ago when I was working up North for coop. One day I found out that a huge package had come in the mail for me. It turns out that my mom finally sent me a care package with socks, warm, new clothes, TONS of chocolate bar that my roommate at the time got my obsessed with, and a letter. It was the most amazing gift I had received in a long time!
Anyways, Friday I received a letter from a dear friend and former priest of mine, Father Kuzma. He sent a very generous, or "small contribution" as he said, of $200.00 to go towards BiH. I was overcome with shock and happiness. It was very generous. Even better, I received a personal letter wishing me luck and expressing his happiness to converse with me after so many years.
It truely made my day and reminded me that the smallest things can make such a difference in someone's life. It also reminded me that I NEED to send my letter and gift to my family friend. She's almost 100 yrs old and LOVES receiving letters. I MUST find out how many stamps are needed in order to send that package and I need to send it tomorrow while I'm in town promoting my event.

A special thanks goes out to Father Kuzma and his parish. Thank you for your contribution and thank you for reminding me about the importance of doing little things like writing hand written letters. :D

God bless,

~Georgie

Affordable Alternatives

2009-03-13T04:40:00.001-07:00

Affordable Alternatives

Readings from TWC & Reflecting on the Recession

2009-03-11T22:48:00.000-07:00

Ivan's article speaks about the importance of mantaining an informal community in order to ensure that the coomon good is benefiting. The second last paragraph sums up the article very well by stating, "The determination of our culture to destroy the common good can only be confronted by “creating a different basis for morality, for action, for living, and therefore for politics”. The only way to overcome our collective alienation from nature and each other is to create conditions where human relationships flourish, where there is a commitment to diversity and mutual support, where people have the ability to shape their tools to create their own informal production and where there is respect for disorderly order."

I will be putting my two-cents into this very soon. But for now I will simply say that I agree with the majority of the article.

http://www.theworkingcentre.org/wscd/ideas/articles/article2.html

Joe's article seems to compliment Ivan's. He wants people to refocus on non-commercial goods.

I think this article, and our group discussion on these articles, come at a good time. We are at the beginning of what could be an indefinite recession. People need to refocus. We all need to minimize our spending habits. At the same time, this is a great opportunity to open ourselves up to the community and start doing things that are less commercial and more personable. Trying to come up with creative ways to occupy our time could be a great thing. When the income is low, people resort to doing more localized and personable activities. Store bought gifts and clothes might be replaced by personable, home-made gifts. Instead of partying all the time, people might be more inclined to attending all-inclusive formal functions or hosting group gatherings at local establishments or in the comfort of his or her home. Instead of buying new clothes and furniture people may find hidden gems in local second hand stores like "Worth A Second Look", or in friends' closets, or even revamp an old look in their own closet.
Finances are tight for many, myself included. On the up side, it forces us to become creative and interact on a more personal and equalizing level with others. It might also help us grow as people, whether it be helping us become bargin-savy, and or gain new connections through an increase in community involvement.

http://www.theworkingcentre.org/wscd/ideas/articles/article2.html

Refer to my blog entitled " Affordable Alternatives " for ideas on bargain-savy alternatives to old habits

Reflecting on Others Blogs

2009-03-10T00:13:00.000-07:00

Reflecting on Others Blogs
I just finished reading Jen's quote on her blog and it really spoke to me. You can view it at: http://ternojen.blogspot.com/ (It's entitled: quote of the day, v. II. )

As I wrote on Jen's blog, I think this quote embodies what each of us hopes to get out of our Beyond Border's experience. We want to grow as people and become more at peace with ourselves. Our experience with BB will hopefully help us achieve these goals.

Moreover, it reminded me of a conversation I had with Maryam and Ruby where we discussed the role of governments. Specifically, we decided that perhaps change needed to start with the local people/communities. Going back to the quote, ‘knowledge and understanding are key elements to peace.’, governments don't create peace, PEOPLE do. With that said, I must remember Scott's words of wisdom, "you would be arrogant to think that you can change the world". Maybe I won't be able to do anything, but I will hopefully be able to converse with locals and NGOs in order to understand their situation in BiH and find out if they are satisfied with the status quo.

Matt’s blog (Lessons from Worth A Second Look) reminded me of a recent visit to Zio's Italian Restaurant, where I used to bartend. As Matt mentioned in his blog, many companies are only worried about "the bottom line". Even some companies that "helping third world countries" are only there to make money. However, every now and then we come across hidden gems, like WASL and Zio's who provided something more important than a commodity; they provided a welcoming atmosphere. My regular customers always reminded me that people don't go to the bar to drink, they go to socialize. It's nice to see that some places are in it for more than just a profit.

Another customer brought up a good point about the economy, which related to Matt’s blog. He said that the recession will be a good way to equalize citizens and make them humble. People will have to watch what they purchase. One can only hope that it will be a permanent or semi-permanent change. At the end of "The Plague", the doctor observed as most of the people within his community conformed back to their old ways. One can only guess whether we too will conform back or be permanently changed by our BB journey. On a larger scale, perhaps this recession will make today's population re-evaluate their priorities. On the other hand, many it won't.

One thing is for sure, a lot of people around me do not seem to be changing their spending habits. People who have always saved are continuing to do so. A lot of people who are used to spending frivolously don’t seem to be resisting their urges. It will be interesting to see how this recession will eventually affect the everyday consumers. I am interested to hear Scott Kline’s insight on today’s economy.

Sharing my experiences and growth

2009-03-09T19:47:00.001-07:00

The other day I had a chance to share my overcoming fear and experience with a friend of mine. He was nervous to ask people to help support him in an endeavour he was pursuing. Recalling the fears I had mere hours before our conversation, I gave him some insight that helped motivate him.

In the past, the mere mention of fundraising and asking for donations/sponsorships gave me anxiety. Walking into a local business and asking a stranger for something was very nerve wracking. However, with the support of my two BB friends, Jen and Ruby, and a pep talk from my dad moments before, I felt ready. Sure, I fumbled through the first couple of encounters, but a couple of hours and one block of local stores later, I had received an outpour of support. A feeling of confidence and excitement replaced my anxiety. As you have read from my "My Own Fundraising Event : MARCH 28!!! " post, I have received numerous donated gifts from locals, I have gained coverage, and have gained support and help from old friends in order to ensure my event runs smoothly. This all took place within 2 days.

In conclusion, I told my very nervous, but very capable friend, that I too was terrified of the unknown and the chance of rejection. However, with every person that rejects you there are numerous others that are willing to help. Moreover, I told him that by conquering my fear, I gained such a valuable experience and that he would as well. Well, he also conquered his fear and now holds a very influential spot on a very important committee. :D

Findraiser for Future BB Students

2009-03-09T19:34:00.001-07:00

Last Friday I was informed of Joanne's plan to help fundraise for BB students 2009-2010. This year’s students will bring back an object unique to their host country that can be auctioned off at a dinner/ceremony next fall. This ceremony will also give alumni a chance to speak on behalf of BB and describe their BB experiences. It will also signify the change over from this year to next years BB class.

I think this is a FABULOUS idea. It will be a great kick-start for next years BB students' experiences and fundraising. It will also allow the current BB students to reunite and meet the future BB class.

Good job Joanne! I hope it works out. I would love the opportunity to share my stories

Group Fundraiser and donation update!

2009-03-09T18:17:00.000-07:00

Our group fundraising event (PANKCAKE SUNDAY) raised $700, which will be dispersed amoung 8 of us. The event was a great learning experience for all of us. When there was a huge rush of people, supplies were dwindling, and the cafeteria was unwilling to give us additional meat, we had to think on the fly and make some decisions. We rose to the occasion and solved the challenging situation fairly quickly. ( I especially liked Kate/Amy's idea to have pancake toppings instead of more fruit! Genius idea!) Moreover, a helpful customer (who has had her fair share of fundraising experience) gave us some advice. She informed us that a brand of pancake mix at Costco gives a 50% rebate to people who are fundraising. She also said that speaking with the managers can sometimes be beneficial. Well it was! The manager at a local Sobey's donated 5 pancake batter! It helped keep our costs down and increase our profits! :D

A huge thanks goes to everyone who helped make the event possible and everyone who come out to the event/supported us.

Moreover, I have been informed that my uncle will be donating $200.00 towards my BB experience. :D

My Own Fundraising Event : MARCH 28!!!

2009-03-07T19:01:00.000-08:00

With ever day that goes by, I am getting increasingly excited for my second fundraising event. With the help of my old boss, I will be hosting a fundraising event at the restaurant that I call "my second home". It will be in conjunction with his business' fourth anniversary.

The following is information on this event #2:

What: Charity Fundraiser & Anniversary Party (Including LIVE BAND: COPPERFIELDS who will be playing today’s hits & classic oldies)

When: Saturday March 28, 2009 Where: Zio’s Italian Restaurant (10 Mountainview Rd. S., Georgetown)

Cost: Dinner, Entertainment & Donation: $55 Bar Service Only: $20

Why: It will help support my journey to Bosnia Herzegovina where I will have the opportunity to promote peace and conflict resolution, while educating youth from multi-cultural backgrounds. My overseas experience will be very beneficial to my self-growth, and help me become a better educator who can adapt more readily to diverse environments. It will also help motivate me to become a more active citizen within our communities.

The following has been accomplished:

One of the regulars at the bar, Ron, has be generous enough to create the posters and tickets
Peter H. has made a generously donated of $42.00
The current bartender has booked a band for the event: Copperfields
I promoted the event within Zio's, and most of my regular bar customers have expressed their support in coming to the event
Ruby, a friend I've gained from BB, has generously donated a digital photo frame for the silent auction
I've gotten permission to submit an article for Georgetown's local paper promoting my event (The Georgetown Independent & Free Press Newspaper)
After an afternoon in the heart of Georgetown I have received A LOT of support from the local community. The following items I currently have for the silent auction/door prizes: CIBC gift bag, beauty products from "The Spa on Main" and "Trendz Hair Studio", books from "The Freckled Lion ", a painting from the owner of "The Wood Heron Studio Gallery", $20.00 off from "North Star Dry Cleaners", and permission to put up promotional event posters in "Creature Comfort" and "RBM". My family friend, Aiden, is also going to donate some Pepsi products for the event.
Our local butcher is giving us a certificate to auction & "Curves" has put together something for the auction (I need to pick up both on Sun/Monday when I'm in town)
Another regular bar customer, Bob W., has gotten a LCD for me to used for my PPP at the event

My main focus: PROMOTE PROMOTE PROMOTE! I want to have a successful turnout!

Thank you to everyone who has helped me thus far. Any monetary and or moral support during these last few months will be greatly appreciated; I have another $1158.00 more to raise. :D Moreover, if anyone is able to donate gifts that can be auctioned off, I will forever be grateful. If you are unable to attend the events, please help me by spreading the word to family and friends.

Thank you ,

~Georgie

Check out my new SGOOP posting!

2009-03-06T05:13:00.001-08:00

Fundraising Update & Information on BB 2008-9 Group Event

2009-03-04T01:48:00.000-08:00

During reading week, I visited an old priest and friend in KW. Father Kuzma was very helpful in giving me suggestions on how to personalize my sponsorship letter, and suggested new outlets I can go to for help. It was nice to catch up with him, and I am very grateful for the chance to bounce ideas off of him. In the coming weeks, Father Kuzma's parish and my friend Wei-Ling will be contributing to my journey. Moreover, as mentioned, I have two fundraisers coming up.

Post reading week, I have been extremely busy with assignments, a midterm, extracurricular and weekend events. With that said, I have taken many hours out of my personal time in order to help organize upcoming fundraising events and seek out support from the community. For the first event I have seeked advertising opportunities from out local church, helped brainstorm other advertising techniques, and helped get necessary equipment for the band performing at the breakfast.

The 1st Event (Group Event):

What: Beyond Borders Group Fundraising Event & only pancakes available in SJ this Sunday! (Includes slideshow on BB, breakfast, and the opportunity to converse with the Beyond Borders Class of 08/09 & SJU community

When: Sunday, March 8th from 10:30am-1:30pm

Where: Main SJU cafeteria How Much: Coffee/juice, 2 pancakes, 3 pieces of bacon = $5.00 minimum donation

Why: Allows you, your friends and the rest of the SJU Community to support and encouragement us as we prepare for our various placements. It is also a great way to learn more about the program and individual placements, and eat delicious pancakes.

Emotional Road Block

2009-02-27T17:46:00.000-08:00

Thus far I have been a huge advocator for the Beyond Borders Program. It has helped me grow as a person and helped me gain a support system and valuable friendships. It has also pushed me to expand my knowledge on diverse cultures, religions,and experiences. It truely has become my niche. Moreover, I know that at the end of this experience, I will become a more knowledgable person who has grown spiritually and will be able to be a better Catholic or Public school teacher. With that said, I feel like I hit an emotional road block Thursday morning. While taking a break from an assignment in a lab on campus, I came across an e-mail that had my mark, thus far for the BB class, and some comments. To say that I was shocked would be an understatement. To say that I was appalled and hurt would be more accurate.

The past couple of months I have dedicated the majority of my free time towards researching Bosnia, i.e., different religions existing in Bosnia, historical conflicts and resolution tactics, demographics, etc.. I have also been reaching out to other Beyond Border students. I have read a summer's worth of blogs from two students who have previously been through the Beyond Border's experience, I have commented on their blogs, inquired their Bosnian experience, and have contacted others. I have also spent numerous hours editing my blog and making sure that my entries vary in content and length. It has become my journal that I have put my heart and soul into. Although many people were unable to comment on my blog due to a previous setting, I have had an outpour of support and positive feedback from a number of people, including friends and family. Thus, I was crushed to hear that my Professor thinks that "several of [my blogs] are fairly superficial." Even a few days later, I still can't get over that. It has definitely tested me. However, I know deep down that I've worked harder on BB assignments than anything I've ever done in University. Although I feel that my work and my sincerity should not be judged and has not been marked accurately, I have comfort in knowing that many people do support me, are rooting for me, and believe that I am doing an excellent job. I can't please everyone. Thus, I need to continue focusing on my goals, i.e., ensuring that my fundraising event coming up runs sucessfully and smoothly. Moreover, I need to take Professor Randy Pausch's advice and I break through this emotional wall.

~ Georgie

My New Favourite Book: The Last Lecture

2009-02-19T01:40:00.000-08:00

I must start off by saying that this was one of two books that has ever made me tear up. It is a truly inspirational novel about a father's last words to his family and his motivational words to the world (at the time he was dying of pancreatic cancer). I recommend it to anyone and everyone; there are life lessons for all to learn.

If you aren't one for reading, I recommend you watch his lecture on YouTube. It will be 1.5hrs well spent.

(Disclaimer: Do not read the rest of this post if you don't want parts of the book spoiled)

Here are some of the many parts that stuck in my mind:

"If you can dream it, you can do it." "...when there's an elephant in the room, introduce it." p. 16

p. 23 "Just because you're in the driver's seat," "doesn't mean you have to run people over."

Ch.5- The elevator in the Ranch House(Allow children to be creative, i.e., allow them to paint their room with random objects. By allowing kids to be creative, you're enabling them to explore their dreams.) (LOVE this Chapter!)

Ch.6 "head-fakes": Lessons that teaches people things they don't realise they're learning until well into the process

Ch. 13- The Man in the Convertible
p.64 "From the side, she could see that the man had a slight smile on his face, the kind of absentminded smile a person might have when he's all alone, happy in his own thoughts."
(Role down the window, blast your music and live life like no one’s watching you. Life's too short. Capture those great moments and hold onto them for dear life. Those are the moments that will get you by during the most trying times in your life. )

Ch 14 p.68 "a Dutch uncle": a person "who cares enough to tell [you] the tough-love things that [you] need to hear."(Don't we all need more people who will tell it like it is.?! Personally, I'd rather have someone tell me when I've wronged them than have an elephant in the room for an infinite amount of time.)

Ch. 15- Pouring Soda in the Backseat
(Don't sweat the small stuff. Let kids be kids. Everyone makes mistakes.)

"... The brick walls are there to stop people who don't want it badly enough. They're there to stop the other people." p. 73 They're there to "give us a chance to show how badly we want things." p. 79 (Persevere and work HARD!)

Ch. 18- Lucy, I'm Home
(Again, don't sweat the small stuff, and only fix the essentials. His parents taught him well. Refer to the car incident.)

Ch. 20 (Not all accomplishments need to be voiced. It's nice to leave suprises.)

Ch. 22 The Truth Can Set You Free

Ch. 23 & 24 (Humorous)"Give yourself permission to dream. Fuel your kids' dreams, too." p. 133

Ch. 31- (Side Note: memories of a dear family.)"Complaining does not work as a strategy. We all have finite time and energy. Any time we spend whining is unlikely to help us achieve our goals. And it won't make us happier." p. 139

**Ch. 33- Treat the Disease, Not the Symptom ** (Something we all can relate to I'm sure)

Ch 34- Don’t Obsess over what People Think (Do what makes you happy)

Ch. 35- Start by Sitting Together (Great ice breakers for group work)

Ch. 37- Watch What They Do, Not What They Say (Actions speak louder than words)
"People will show you their good side. Just keep waiting. It will come out." "If you wait long enough, people will surprise and impress you." p.144

Ch. 39- Be the First Penguin"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." p. 147
"...the notion that when penguins are about to jump into water that might contain predators, well, somebody’s got to be the first penguin." p. 149

Ch. 40- Get People's Attention

Ch. 41- The Lost Art of Thank You Notes (People, myself included until recently, don't realise the importance of this type of note. It can make a world of difference in the way people view you. Make an effort to ensure these last touches are done right.)

Ch. 45- Send Out the Mints (Another way of thanking those around you, while motivating them.)

Ch. 46- All You Have is What you Bring with You (Be prepared for anything. Have at least one contingency plan. Plan for the worst and hope for the best.) "Hard work is compounded interest in a bank. The rewards build faster." p.165

Ch. 47- A Bad Apology is Worse Than No Apology (Agreed) "You are only as good as your words." p.163 (But back those words up with appropriate actions.)

Ch. 51- No Job is Beneath You"I had arrived in a place (Disney as an Imagineer) where my academic credentials meant nothing. I became a traveler in a foreign land who had to find a way to come up with the Local currency- fast!" "The reason I tell this story is to emphasize now sensitive you need to be when crossing from one culture to another" p. 170-1 "If you find yours footing between two cultures, sometimes you can have the best of both worlds." p. 171 (Sometime we should all strive for)

Ch. 53- Never Give Up

Ch. 55- All you Have to Do is Ask (You'll be surprised at the amount of opportunities you can gain) "Each of us must decide: Am I a fun-loving Tigger or am I a sad-sack Eeyore?" p. 180

VI Final Remarks (Prepare for waterworks!)

Reading Week

2009-02-16T18:36:00.000-08:00

I just spent the day with my family (both on my mother and father's side) and it made me realise how much I'm going to miss them. They are my rock. (It was so much fun visiting my dad's side for the first time in almost a year, rocking it out "Rock Band" styles with my mom's side, and teaching my cousins how to say Happy Birthday, " Sretan Rođendan", so they could say it to my two uncles and Baka (who's b-days are all within the month of February).

With that said, I would like to thank my parents for supporting my Beyond Borders experience, especially my mom who has always been my biggest advocate when it comes to this experience. Financially and emotionally she has supported BB even before the journey began. Thank you. I would also like to thank my grandparents for increasing their support and financial contribution.

Through the next few months (I can't believe there are less than 3 to go) I will be spending as much time as possible with my loved ones. Moreover, hearding about my uncle's side trip to see my extended family in Croatia, and conversing with past and present students going to BiH has made me esctatic yet a bit nervous.

On a different note, if anyone has connections to people in the entertainment industry please let me know.

~ Georgie

New Purchases, Connections, & Pics

2009-02-13T20:32:00.000-08:00

Today I finally had a chance to go to Chapters. Unfortunately, they don't carry any books on BiH. Thus, I had to buy Croat phrase books; I bought 2 that are pocket-size. The Croatian and Serbian alphabet look to be the same (they don't mention Bosnian). Here are some useful phrases:

Excuse me (to get attention): Oprostite (aw praw stee te)
Excuse me (to get past): Ispričavam se (ee spree cha vam se)
Sorry: Žao mi je (zha aw mee ye)
I (don't) understand: Ja (ne) razumijem (ra zoo mee yem)
I don't speak Croatian: Ne govorim hrvatski (ne gau-vau-reem hr-vaht-skee)
Leave me allow (lol): Ostavite me na miru! (aust-ah-vee-te me nah mee-roo)
Go away! (lol): Odlazite! (aud-lah-zee-te!)
I'm lost!: Ja sam zalutala (fem) (Ja sahm zah-loo-tah-lah)
Does anyone here speak English? Dali ovdje itko govori engleski? (dah lee auv-dye-eet-koh gau-vau-ree eng-les-kee?)
Can you help me? Možete li mi pomoći? (mau-zhe-tee lee mee pau-moh-chee?)
I speak very little Croatian: Govorim samo malo hrvatskog (gau-vau-ree sah-moh mah-loh hr-vaht-tskog)

I'm going back to Chapters tomorrow to get some Europe travel books. I also need to pre-order Bosian books/CDs. Moreover, I bought some recommended books for my pre-departure, and my stay in Bosnia.

Moreover, I have reached out to past Beyond Borders/ Intercordia students who have gone to BiH. One is meeting me to show pictures of her stay in BiH. The other has sent me his blog site. I've already read 1/4 of his entries and they're making me so excited. The following are some of the points that stood out to me:

• Everyone knows each other and or they recognize foreigners VERY quickly
• “Everything is a memory”: They don’t like visitors taking pictures of things that have been shot at because it is not a fond memory for them to relive
• He got a tick, which I’m worried about (he calls it "an adventure" and recommends that I stay clear of the tall grass)
• Most structures have bullet marks from the war in the 1990s
• Cafés and construction are the main source of employment for citizens; however, according to Mike many people just lounge all day
• 1 side is abandoned and the other side is full of people staying in apartments
• With that said, there seems to be more buildings and cafés than people

He hid his passport under the rug and feared it getting lost. (I'm glad that I'm not the only one)

Here are pics from Mike (BiH volunteer 2006):

Art Academy at the University of Sarajevo

Sarajevo

Memory of the War

Typical Homes in BiH (note the bullet holes on the side of the house)

One of the Homes

Apartments in Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje

Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje Walking Home from Youth Centre

On the Hill Looking Down on Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje

Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje Youth Center

Contruction

(Thanks Mike Little - SJU)

First In-Class Presentation

2009-02-12T13:47:00.000-08:00

Today I had my first presentation on my country and placement. The slides I just uploaded onto my blog are the ones I used during my presentation. (I briefly described the location, demographics, transit, currency, purchasing tips, food, and placement (Gornji Vakuf- Uskoplje)in Bosnia Herzegovina. Since I had practiced in front of SJ Union members during our bake sale, in the mirror and in front of my house mate while walking to class, I was fairly prepared. However, I did forget to mention certain things, i.e., that I have websites on my blog that other BB students can go to to find out about VISA requirements and recommended vaccinations. As well, my nerves prevented me from answering a couple of the questions to the best of my knowledge. However, all in all it was fairly successful.

Side note: I'm glad that I didn't devour all of my Baka's "Pita" because it was nice to get to share it with my classmates (bring some of my culture into the classroom).

Afterwards, my friend Jen presented on her country: Ukraine. I absolutely love the creativity she has. It definitely gave me some ideas on how I can improve my Power Point before presenting at my fundraiser in March. Thanks Jen :D

PowerPoint on Bosnia

2009-02-11T04:45:00.000-08:00

Bosnia Herzegovina Ppp

View more presentations from sgeorge86.

http://www.historycentral.com/nationbynation/Bosnia/Index.html
http://www.state.gov/r/pa/ei/bgn/2868.htm
http://wwwn.cdc.gov/travel/destinationBosniaAndHerzegovina.aspx
http://wwwn.cdc.gov/travel/contentAvianFluAmericansAbroad.aspx
http://www.cemes.org/current/LGI/172-eng.htm
http://www.ddh.nl/org/gvakuf/project.html
http://www.europ-assistance.com/uk/travel-information/sanitary-risks-health-advices-Bosnia-and-Herzegovina_BIH_5.html
http://www.voyage.gc.ca/countries_pays/report_rapport-eng.asp?id=35000
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarajevo
http://www.blurtit.com/q384498.html

Back from a Busy Weekend

2009-02-10T08:06:00.000-08:00

The weekend was fairly busy. I went home to pick up the cheque from my Parish, received some donations, gain some more contacts, and discuss a fundraier with my old boss. I still need to raise $1150 (I have received $550 and will be getting another $300 during reading week). After visiting my old job (my home away from home) my boss agreed to hold a fundraiser at his restuarant on the last week of March, which is also the 4th anniversary of his restaurant. Right now we are seeking entertainment. Hopefully by the next week I will be asking local companies for items I can auction off during the event. We are all very excited for the event but it will definitely be time consuming and a lot of work. :D I have also gotten into contact with the two other Intercordia students who are going to BiH. We are all really excited to be going and I'm definitely glad to have the chance to converse with them beofre leaving. Lastly, on Thursday myself and Jen will be giving presentations on our countries, and our class will be discussing a group fundraiser that will likely be on the first Sunday in March. Our last Intercordia seminar, which I'm SO excited for, will also take place during that weekend.

That's it for now,

~G

Fundraising Update

2009-02-06T20:53:00.000-08:00

With $1500 left to fundraise I'm getting ready to send out my second batch of letters. It feels so good going home and talking with people who support me wholeheartedly. I am so grateful to my grandparents for helping me out even though they are terrified about me going. I am also going to my old job, and home away from home, tomorrow to discuss a potential fundraising event in the restaurant. I'm hoping that my fellow BB classmates are doing well in their fundraising events and I'm happy for those who have completed their fundraising. Moreover, I'm excited about our group fundraiser on the second Sunday in March and I'm very grateful to those who have helped me brainstorm.

General Info for Traveling

2009-02-06T01:04:00.000-08:00

Hey guys,

I've been looking into information about immunizations, healthy water, etc. Below I have included some useful sites:

Creating Healthy Water:

http://wwwn.cdc.gov/travel/contentWaterTreatment.aspx

Traveler's Health Guide:

(Choose your placement and you will get info on Recommendations or Requirements for Vaccine-Preventable Diseases, Medicines you might need, Other diseases found in your area, food and water precausions, what to do after returning home, etc.)

wwwn.cdc.gov/travel/destinationList.aspx

Traveler's Report:

This site includes info. on warnings and recommendations, registration recommendations, safety and security, entry and exit requirements (INCLUDING VISA INFO), Canadian government contacts (i.e. Cdn Embassy in host country), health info needed for traveling, laws and customs, currency, travel tips, natural disaster and climate, traveler's checklist, and travel insurance.

http://www.voyage.gc.ca/countries_pays/menu-eng.asp

Info on Main Health Risks, foos safety, immunizations and medications, contacts for health (i.e., hospitals and doctors in host country), emergency contact info and general climate:

http://www.europ-assistance.com/uk/infos_pratiques/default.html

The Speak English Cafe

2009-02-05T20:53:00.000-08:00

Last night was my first 2 hrs volunteering at TWC. I participated in the “Speaking English Café”. Last night, the SEC consisted of two parts.

The first was a "BINGO" type activity where we were given roughly 25 questions, i.e., Are you afraid of heights? We had to circulate the room finding people who could answer "yes" to the questions. When we found those people, they had to sign their name beside the question. Each person could only sign each page once. The goal was to be the first person to complete the task and receive a high five, and more importantly, to start warming up to each other and practice speaking English. This was a great ice breaker. Personally it helped me meet different people and remember them by word associations (which many of you know is the key way that I remember people's names).

The second part of the evening was working through a verbal activity in our table groups. My group consisted of two gentlemen recently from Columbia, an intelligent and worldly man from India, my friend Sebastian, another person from KW and a woman from India. As a group we decided to discuss each question presented on the paper. An example of a question was: If you could write a book what would it be about (i.e., genre, type of characters, etc). After answering these questions we had to look at some Idioms. After reading them aloud, we allowed the recent immigrants to guess on the different meanings. Then we would help describe any idioms that they had difficulties with. These activities were a fun way of getting to know people as individuals and in a small way we helped their understanding of the English language.

Relating this to Friere, this was much more effective than getting the people to attend a lecture on the English language. We all got to engage in a dialect together and to educate each other on our different views, knowledge and experiences. It was very satisfying.

After leaving TWC, I couldn't help but wonder if Bosnia has a program similar for foreigners, like myself, or locals who are seeking to learn foreign languages. In the weeks prior to overseas adventure, I hope to find out if such a program exists.

Moreover, as most of you know, I aspire to become an elementary teacher. What most of you don't know is that that has been my ideal job since I was a little girl teaching my Croatian grandmother, Baka, English on my weekly visits. Being able to not only be involved in these adult’s journey through improving their language skills, but also learn more about their worldly experiences, is such a blessing to me. It was just amazing to interact with such a diverse and positive group of adults. I am so thrilled to have had this opportunity with TWC and I am looking forward to volunteering there in the weeks leading up to my departure to Bosnia.

Ramadan

2009-01-30T17:30:00.000-08:00

The other day I was researching about the Bosniak population, who are primarily Muslim (40%), and I can across the word "Ramadan". Being a devoted Catholic who is not very familiar with other religions, I was unaware of what this word meant. That's when I started reading about Ramadan, which happens to be a very important Muslim religious holiday. I found the holiday to be very facinating and below I have included some interesting facts on it:

It occurs during the 9th month of the Islamic calendar, which is based on the moon instead of the sun. Thus, it moves back approximately 11 days every year. This year, 2009, it will be from Friday, August 21st- Sat September 19th.

People who participate in this holiday must fast for an entire month. This includes eating or drinking anything from sunrise to sunset (until after their 4th prayer). This is a sign of sacrificing for God. It is a time for deepening their faith and spirituality, i.e., praying and contemplating life decisions and what truly matters more frequently. It puts an emphasis on asking for forgiveness of large sins, restraining from everyday evils, and doing good deeds. It also encourages people to increase their " patience, sacrifice and humility". "Smoking and sexual relations are also forbidden during fasting. At the end of the day the fast is broken with prayer and a meal called the iftar. In the evening following the iftar it is customary for Muslims to go out visiting family and friends. The fast is resumed the next morning."

The major focus is religion. In addition to their usual five daily prayer, Muslims participating in Ramadan spend several hours praying and studying the Quran in their mosques. They usually recite a prayer called Taraweeh prayer (Night Prayer), which is around 2-3 times longer than the daily prayer. Many pray throughout the whole night.

The 27th evening is the most important time of Ramadan. It is called Laylat-al-Qadr (the Night of Power). It is believed to be the evening when the Holy Quran decended from heaven to reveal to Muhammad that during this evening God will decide the fate of the world for the upcoming year.

The end of this holiday is a three-day celebration called Id-al-Fitr(the Feast of Fast Breaking). It is on the first day of the next lunar month called Shawwal. People collectively pray with their families and friends, and exchange gifts. Some cities even have fairs to celebrate the end of the religious holiday.

References:

http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramadan

http://www.when-is.com/ramadan-2010.asp

Thank You Father David Wynen & Holy Cross Catholic Parish

2009-01-29T14:59:00.000-08:00

I have just received notification that Father David Wynen & Holy Cross Catholic Parish will be donating $500.00 towards my Beyond Borders experience. I would like to formally thank them. I must say that I am ecstatic about this news and you all are the first to know about it! :D Thank you again; you have truly made my day!!! :D

~ G.

Fundraising Update

2009-01-27T21:35:00.000-08:00

As of right now I only have a tentative $15.00 put towards my fundraising. I have sent out letters to priests who once were/ are officiated with my church in Georgetown. As well, I have sent letters to close family members, doctors, and my old boss. I am planning on following up and catch up with them within the next few days. That's it for now. **Crossing fingers**

Slowing Learning the Language...

2009-01-27T20:51:00.000-08:00

I thought it would be fun if I posted the words/phrases that I am learning so that you could learn some too! :D I'm going to try to memorize a couple per week. Let's start with the basics:

Good morning: Dobar dan! or dobro jutro (note that the"j" sounds like a "y")

Good afternoon: Dobar dan! (Note: you're supposed to roll your "r"s.. something that I need to practice)

Good evening: Dobra večer (Note: č sounds like "ch" in chick; also note that the ending change... there are many rules that you need to follow in order to determine the ending vowel but I forget them because I haven't taken basic Croat. in 4 years)

The following I already know:

How are you?: kako ste/si? (Note: the "i" sounds like a "long e" as in see)

Hi: zdravo

Bye: doviđenja (Note: "đ" makes the "dg" sound)

You: ti/vi And: i

No thank you: ne hvalano

Thank you: Hvala

Your Welcome: Molim

New Phrases:

I am Canadian: Ja sam Kanadski

I cannot speak that much Croatian: Ne mogu da govorim da mnogo Hrvatske

Do you know any English? Da li znate bilo engleski jezik?

Can you speak English? Da li govore engleski jezik?

Links:

2009-01-25T04:29:00.000-08:00

Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje in Bosnia-Herzegovina - Google Maps

The Working Center: KW's Very Own "W. Wonka's Chocolate Factory"

2009-01-25T03:53:00.000-08:00

http://www.theworkingcentre.org/

Two weeks ago we went to The Working Center, which is where myself and the rest of the BB crew are going to be doing our volunteer services for the remaining months in this term. It's located in Kitchener, and consists of two buildings adjacent to each other. Joanne, your instructor, was right: it IS an amazing, magical place. While getting a tour, one of the students in our class compared it to Willy Wonka's chocolate factory because there are so many hidden corridors and it seems like the possible resources for the underprivileged in KW are never-ending.

Rebecca, our tour guide, and whose family created the center, showed us around. The objective of the tour was to give helpus understand the history of the center. As well, it allowed us to explore our volunteering options within the buildings.

Within the builds there was a bike shop that people can go to buy inexpensive bikes or get their own repaired, a computer area where people can get their computer repaired for a small fee, a soup kitchen where people can get breakfast and or lunch and
where people do arts and crafts, and there are lofts for people coming back into the community after spending time in rehab or jail. They also have a media centre where low-budget films can be edited, an arts and crafts area where people can make papers, soaps, rugs, and clothes, which can then be sold in the cafe downstairs. Their cafe also hosts musical talents, and practice sessions for whose with English as their second language.

It's so inspirational to see a family so passionate about helping those within our community; they dedicate their lives to helping others and creating a resource centre available to everyone. I am very excited to start volunteering.

Last week I had an interview with Rebecca to discuss my potential volunteer opportunities. The two placements that I would love to get involved in are assisting with the arts and crafts & the conversing with people to help improve their English. Hopefully, I'll know my placement by the middle of this week.

Stay Tuned,

~G.

1st Ever Blog Entry: "Congratulations! You will be spending Summer 2009 in ... Bosnia-Herzegovina."

2009-01-12T13:57:00.000-08:00

Hey guys,

So, mid December I found out that I am going to Gornji Vakuf-Uskoplje in Bosnia-Herzegovina for my Beyond Borders summer volunteer placement. I'm SUPER excited. Since then I've spoken to my family, who are also very excited for me. I found out that the placement is in a central town in Bosnia-Herz., which was one of the first places that suffered from the war between Bosnians and Croatians. Since then, many youth centres have been built to try and encourage the youth to peacefully coexist and interact with each other, regardless of cultural differences. During May-August 2009 I will be volunteering at one of the youth centres and staying with a host family. However, before leaving, I have to take courses, participate in seminars, and volunteering within my local community to prepare for the experience.

Last term I took a course called "Current Ethical Issues". I thoroughly enjoyed the course and professor. Throughout the term, we independently read and then collectively discussed "The Plague" and "Pedagogy of the Oppressed". We also had presentations about different summer placements, and discussed some theory on ethics and any concerns we were having with the program. In comparison to this term, last term was very theoretical; however, I think that Professor Kline sucessfully created a balance of theory and discussion. Moreover, I am greatful that Prof. Scott Kline always told us straight up the difficulties each placement will present (instead of sugar-coating them).

We also had to take part in two off-campus conferences/seminars with people from Intercordia. I did one with the students from my university, and another with people from Kings University. I am glad to have had a chance to meet with both sets of students. The conference with people from my class allowed me to get to know them on a more personable level and bond with them. The Kings students were awesome as well, thus I am glad to have met them. It also allowed me the chance to meet one of the students who I just found out will be going with me to Bosnia-Herz.. I can't say enough good things about the seminars. They were fabulous! I also must credit Lisa, and the rest of the people from Intercordia for getting me to FINALLY enjoying writing journals.

I have just starting my final preparation term before heading to Europe. Next week I will be getting a tour of "The Working Centre", which is a centre that I'll be volunteering my time for the next three months. I am also trying to get myself organized so that I can send out letters

and speak with churches, and my family and friends to ask for donations. Today, I filed my

papers to get my passport, and I've completed most of my other papers. The more that is accomplished, the more real it feels.

I'm extremely excited. At the same time, I'm nervous to get all my donations in on time. Stay tuned for my next blog entry.

-Georgie