The other day I had a chance to share my overcoming fear and experience with a friend of mine. He was nervous to ask people to help support him in an endeavour he was pursuing. Recalling the fears I had mere hours before our conversation, I gave him some insight that helped motivate him.
In the past, the mere mention of fundraising and asking for donations/sponsorships gave me anxiety. Walking into a local business and asking a stranger for something was very nerve wracking. However, with the support of my two BB friends, Jen and Ruby, and a pep talk from my dad moments before, I felt ready. Sure, I fumbled through the first couple of encounters, but a couple of hours and one block of local stores later, I had received an outpour of support. A feeling of confidence and excitement replaced my anxiety. As you have read from my "My Own Fundraising Event : MARCH 28!!! " post, I have received numerous donated gifts from locals, I have gained coverage, and have gained support and help from old friends in order to ensure my event runs smoothly. This all took place within 2 days.
In conclusion, I told my very nervous, but very capable friend, that I too was terrified of the unknown and the chance of rejection. However, with every person that rejects you there are numerous others that are willing to help. Moreover, I told him that by conquering my fear, I gained such a valuable experience and that he would as well. Well, he also conquered his fear and now holds a very influential spot on a very important committee. :D
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you made such a good point - it's nerve wracking, uncomfortable, etc. to approach people for help... and it seems for every person that turns you down, there are two that are incredibly supportive :) annnnnd it's definitely a good learning experience to have!
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